[KateA - The Devil In Heels]

This scenario in my opinion is obscene and peak male fantasy. No way in hell would I ever allow myself to be used and manipulated like this. In this scenario I would roll my eyes, punch the bastard in his face and leave. I would also encourage my would be rival to do the same. Catfighting is not a fucking sport people, it is violent and nasty, the risks are extremely real. Its not something to do on a whim or for the entertainment of others, at least that is my opinion.

Now if in this scenario the man (and I use the term loosely) were to offer a cash prize for a catfight? I would still personally say hell no, however I can at least understand why other women would say yes.

Hugz and kisses
Kate

Last summer, something happened to me. I was in a bad relationship with my friend Liz at the time. And one asshole decided to take advantage of that. He said a bunch of nasty things to her, supposedly on my behalf. Said that I was spreading nasty rumors about her, that she was a whore and all that. I didn't talk to this idiot myself, but he, through our mutual friend Victoria, told me that Liz had told everyone about my stepfather and a lot of other things. I was furious. Liz was also furious. We were ready to kill each other. And the damn asshole rubbed his hands and beamed with happiness.

Hi Alexandra,

What a fucking bastard!

However did this damned asshole get want he wanted or were you and Liz able to make peace and see through his lies and manipulation?

Xoxo
Kate

Hi Kate.
I was going crazy for about a week. All this time I continued to wind myself up. Finally I decided to talk to Liz. But it turned out that she blocked me on all her social networks and her phone number also became unavailable to me. Then I stopped doubting, I decided that since she was hiding, it meant it was all true and she was a bitch and a traitor. I told Victoria that I was going to meet Liz and tell her face to face everything I thought about her. Victoria started begging me not to do it. She is very sweet and she didn't want Liz and I to fight. The situation was heating up. A certain Christina appeared, introduced herself as my friend and said a bunch of nasty things to Liz, allegedly on my behalf. This Christina also started to set Victoria against me. I told Victoria that I don’t know any Christina and have never met her. Here I had doubts. I don't know any Kristina, and she says that she is my friend. Clearly someone is trying to make us quarrel. Then I decided to take a desperate step. I waylaid Liz when she was returning from work. When she saw me, she panicked, she thought I was going to fight her. But I just wanted to talk. We went to a cafe and told each other everything. And as soon as we started talking, all the lies that Andrey had woven fell apart like a house of cards. This Andrey tried to court me earlier. But I turned him down. Then he started hitting on Victoria, but she also turned him down. He decided it was because of me and tried to get revenge on me by pitting me against Liz. He really wanted us to fight. And he almost succeeded.

Something similar happened to me a couple of years ago, but it wasn’t a man who pitted us against each other it was a woman and she succeeded I fought my friend now exfriend because of that bitch, it honestly sucks when something like that happens.

Probably every girl had such a "friend" who spread gossip and provoked conflicts.

This is true, well at least in my experience. I’ve seen it in the workplace, seen it while at university and I saw it amongst my circle of friends.

I suppose the question is now then: is this a legitimate tactic us girls should use? Would you for example look down on someone if say she used said tactic to trick two girls who you didn’t like into fighting?

And for the record, I’ve not done this myself but I’ve seen it done and honestly I was delighted with the results

In my experience, girls often like it when men fight over them. I've seen this many times. As for girls, it's more about arguments than fights. Although, anything can happen.

I’ve never been a huge fan of fighting over people or being fought over. However if pushed my preference would be to have two girls fighting over me. But if they did, they need to understand that the result is meaningless. I refuse to be a trophy.

What do you mean? Two girls are fighting over you, but you refuse to be a trophy, and then why would they fight? Well, if they don't get anything?

Why would they fight? Well for starters I’m a cutie

But my bad jokes aside, as a species we don’t need much of an excuse to fight do we? And just because two cute girls decided that the winner gets me, doesn’t mean I should be beholden to their decision?

Bottom line - I don’t like people who think they can make decisions about me, without my input. And to put it bluntly the chances of me asking two cute girls to fight over me and then saying I will date the winner is infinitesimal. It’s not in my nature.

So yes, I would love to watch to cute girls tear chunks out of each other over me. But I will never ask them to do it and if they decide unilaterally to fight over me, that’s fine. Just don’t expect me to hand myself off to the winner as their trophy.

Go get me Alexandra?

[Alexandra X]

This scenario in my opinion is obscene and peak male fantasy. No way in hell would I ever allow myself to be used and manipulated like this. In this scenario I would roll my eyes, punch the bastard in his face and leave. I would also encourage my would be rival to do the same. Catfighting is not a fucking sport people, it is violent and nasty, the risks are extremely real. Its not something to do on a whim or for the entertainment of others, at least that is my opinion.

Now if in this scenario the man (and I use the term loosely) were to offer a cash prize for a catfight? I would still personally say hell no, however I can at least understand why other women would say yes.

Hugz and kisses
Kate

Last summer, something happened to me. I was in a bad relationship with my friend Liz at the time. And one asshole decided to take advantage of that. He said a bunch of nasty things to her, supposedly on my behalf. Said that I was spreading nasty rumors about her, that she was a whore and all that. I didn't talk to this idiot myself, but he, through our mutual friend Victoria, told me that Liz had told everyone about my stepfather and a lot of other things. I was furious. Liz was also furious. We were ready to kill each other. And the damn asshole rubbed his hands and beamed with happiness.

Hi Alexandra,

What a fucking bastard!

However did this damned asshole get want he wanted or were you and Liz able to make peace and see through his lies and manipulation?

Xoxo
Kate

Hi Kate.
I was going crazy for about a week. All this time I continued to wind myself up. Finally I decided to talk to Liz. But it turned out that she blocked me on all her social networks and her phone number also became unavailable to me. Then I stopped doubting, I decided that since she was hiding, it meant it was all true and she was a bitch and a traitor. I told Victoria that I was going to meet Liz and tell her face to face everything I thought about her. Victoria started begging me not to do it. She is very sweet and she didn't want Liz and I to fight. The situation was heating up. A certain Christina appeared, introduced herself as my friend and said a bunch of nasty things to Liz, allegedly on my behalf. This Christina also started to set Victoria against me. I told Victoria that I don’t know any Christina and have never met her. Here I had doubts. I don't know any Kristina, and she says that she is my friend. Clearly someone is trying to make us quarrel. Then I decided to take a desperate step. I waylaid Liz when she was returning from work. When she saw me, she panicked, she thought I was going to fight her. But I just wanted to talk. We went to a cafe and told each other everything. And as soon as we started talking, all the lies that Andrey had woven fell apart like a house of cards. This Andrey tried to court me earlier. But I turned him down. Then he started hitting on Victoria, but she also turned him down. He decided it was because of me and tried to get revenge on me by pitting me against Liz. He really wanted us to fight. And he almost succeeded.

Something similar happened to me a couple of years ago, but it wasn’t a man who pitted us against each other it was a woman and she succeeded I fought my friend now exfriend because of that bitch, it honestly sucks when something like that happens.

Probably every girl had such a "friend" who spread gossip and provoked conflicts.

This is true, well at least in my experience. I’ve seen it in the workplace, seen it while at university and I saw it amongst my circle of friends.

I suppose the question is now then: is this a legitimate tactic us girls should use? Would you for example look down on someone if say she used said tactic to trick two girls who you didn’t like into fighting?

And for the record, I’ve not done this myself but I’ve seen it done and honestly I was delighted with the results

In my experience, girls often like it when men fight over them. I've seen this many times. As for girls, it's more about arguments than fights. Although, anything can happen.

I’ve never been a huge fan of fighting over people or being fought over. However if pushed my preference would be to have two girls fighting over me. But if they did, they need to understand that the result is meaningless. I refuse to be a trophy.

What do you mean? Two girls are fighting over you, but you refuse to be a trophy, and then why would they fight? Well, if they don't get anything?

Why would they fight? Well for starters I’m a cutie

But my bad jokes aside, as a species we don’t need much of an excuse to fight do we? And just because two cute girls decided that the winner gets me, doesn’t mean I should be beholden to their decision?

Bottom line - I don’t like people who think they can make decisions about me, without my input. And to put it bluntly the chances of me asking two cute girls to fight over me and then saying I will date the winner is infinitesimal. It’s not in my nature.

So yes, I would love to watch to cute girls tear chunks out of each other over me. But I will never ask them to do it and if they decide unilaterally to fight over me, that’s fine. Just don’t expect me to hand myself off to the winner as their trophy.

Go get me Alexandra?

It's like someone telling you, "Hey, bitch, get away from my boyfriend," even though the guy doesn't even know he's the one causing the conflict. It's possible for a similar scenario to occur if you have a girlfriend and she's extremely jealous. 

[_Ruslana_]

He sets a condition that he will stay with the winner.

If my boyfriend suggests it to me, then I will immediately tell him to go to hell and break up with him. And after that, not in front of him, I'll try to kick that bitch's ass.
But I'm ready to fight against a bitch in front of my boyfriend for another prize for the winner, like money.

[KateA - The Devil In Heels]

This scenario in my opinion is obscene and peak male fantasy. No way in hell would I ever allow myself to be used and manipulated like this. In this scenario I would roll my eyes, punch the bastard in his face and leave. I would also encourage my would be rival to do the same. Catfighting is not a fucking sport people, it is violent and nasty, the risks are extremely real. Its not something to do on a whim or for the entertainment of others, at least that is my opinion.

Now if in this scenario the man (and I use the term loosely) were to offer a cash prize for a catfight? I would still personally say hell no, however I can at least understand why other women would say yes.

Hugz and kisses
Kate

Last summer, something happened to me. I was in a bad relationship with my friend Liz at the time. And one asshole decided to take advantage of that. He said a bunch of nasty things to her, supposedly on my behalf. Said that I was spreading nasty rumors about her, that she was a whore and all that. I didn't talk to this idiot myself, but he, through our mutual friend Victoria, told me that Liz had told everyone about my stepfather and a lot of other things. I was furious. Liz was also furious. We were ready to kill each other. And the damn asshole rubbed his hands and beamed with happiness.

Hi Alexandra,

What a fucking bastard!

However did this damned asshole get want he wanted or were you and Liz able to make peace and see through his lies and manipulation?

Xoxo
Kate

Hi Kate.
I was going crazy for about a week. All this time I continued to wind myself up. Finally I decided to talk to Liz. But it turned out that she blocked me on all her social networks and her phone number also became unavailable to me. Then I stopped doubting, I decided that since she was hiding, it meant it was all true and she was a bitch and a traitor. I told Victoria that I was going to meet Liz and tell her face to face everything I thought about her. Victoria started begging me not to do it. She is very sweet and she didn't want Liz and I to fight. The situation was heating up. A certain Christina appeared, introduced herself as my friend and said a bunch of nasty things to Liz, allegedly on my behalf. This Christina also started to set Victoria against me. I told Victoria that I don’t know any Christina and have never met her. Here I had doubts. I don't know any Kristina, and she says that she is my friend. Clearly someone is trying to make us quarrel. Then I decided to take a desperate step. I waylaid Liz when she was returning from work. When she saw me, she panicked, she thought I was going to fight her. But I just wanted to talk. We went to a cafe and told each other everything. And as soon as we started talking, all the lies that Andrey had woven fell apart like a house of cards. This Andrey tried to court me earlier. But I turned him down. Then he started hitting on Victoria, but she also turned him down. He decided it was because of me and tried to get revenge on me by pitting me against Liz. He really wanted us to fight. And he almost succeeded.

Something similar happened to me a couple of years ago, but it wasn’t a man who pitted us against each other it was a woman and she succeeded I fought my friend now exfriend because of that bitch, it honestly sucks when something like that happens.

Probably every girl had such a "friend" who spread gossip and provoked conflicts.

This is true, well at least in my experience. I’ve seen it in the workplace, seen it while at university and I saw it amongst my circle of friends.

I suppose the question is now then: is this a legitimate tactic us girls should use? Would you for example look down on someone if say she used said tactic to trick two girls who you didn’t like into fighting?

And for the record, I’ve not done this myself but I’ve seen it done and honestly I was delighted with the results

In my experience, girls often like it when men fight over them. I've seen this many times. As for girls, it's more about arguments than fights. Although, anything can happen.

I’ve never been a huge fan of fighting over people or being fought over. However if pushed my preference would be to have two girls fighting over me. But if they did, they need to understand that the result is meaningless. I refuse to be a trophy.

What do you mean? Two girls are fighting over you, but you refuse to be a trophy, and then why would they fight? Well, if they don't get anything?

Why would they fight? Well for starters I’m a cutie

But my bad jokes aside, as a species we don’t need much of an excuse to fight do we? And just because two cute girls decided that the winner gets me, doesn’t mean I should be beholden to their decision?

Bottom line - I don’t like people who think they can make decisions about me, without my input. And to put it bluntly the chances of me asking two cute girls to fight over me and then saying I will date the winner is infinitesimal. It’s not in my nature.

So yes, I would love to watch to cute girls tear chunks out of each other over me. But I will never ask them to do it and if they decide unilaterally to fight over me, that’s fine. Just don’t expect me to hand myself off to the winner as their trophy.

Go get me Alexandra?

It's like someone telling you, "Hey, bitch, get away from my boyfriend," even though the guy doesn't even know he's the one causing the conflict. It's possible for a similar scenario to occur if you have a girlfriend and she's extremely jealous.

If my girlfriend was involved in a catfight over me, that’s different. I was more thinking about a catfight over me where neither party has an emotional connection to me.

[_Ruslana_]

Probably every girl had such a "friend" who spread gossip and provoked conflicts.

I think this is the most common reason for female fights. I've had fights over it.  Because of these reasons, we fight much more often than over men.

[KateA - The Devil In Heels]

Probably every girl had such a "friend" who spread gossip and provoked conflicts.

I think this is the most common reason for female fights. I've had fights over it.  Because of these reasons, we fight much more often than over men.

We’re definitely are own worst enemies. And normally when this does occur, in my experience it’s nearly always are so called friends who stab you in the back and set you against someone.

[Mike_Lynn]

I would not consider fighting another woman at the whim of my husband, Mike. And he would never demand that I fight for his pleasure. But I would consider using him as my interlocutor, proposing an arranged fight to my opponent’s male partner. Her man would have a difficult time in passing on the challenge.

Difficult because it would be hard for him to hide his arousal at the prospect of seeing his woman brawling with me in front of him and Mike. Difficult because she would have a hard time saying no, without looking like an inferior woman in his eyes. If she agreed to fight, but with the condition that he must fight my man, it would be difficult for him to say no. And I would love for that to happen.

When Mike and I create our fantasy fights with other couples, we use this approach to make sure that everyone gets what they want when there is a face-off to be had. It’s a partnership based on lust and violence. It’s a bond where neither partner feels unappreciated. And it’s wildly exciting and primal to fight in front of your mate. It doesn’t have to be a forced fight done at the whim of your other half.  It can be calculated and well-planned which makes the entire battle even more orgasmic…win or lose. So if you are going to fight for your man, consider that he be ready to do the same for you.
Lynn

[_Ruslana_]

Probably every girl had such a "friend" who spread gossip and provoked conflicts.

I think this is the most common reason for female fights. I've had fights over it.  Because of these reasons, we fight much more often than over men.

We’re definitely are own worst enemies. And normally when this does occur, in my experience it’s nearly always are so called friends who stab you in the back and set you against someone.

Exactly. But it's not just friends who do this, but also colleagues at work or college or university. I had fights against a "friend" and against my university classmate.

[Broken Valkyrie]

Probably every girl had such a "friend" who spread gossip and provoked conflicts.

I think this is the most common reason for female fights. I've had fights over it.  Because of these reasons, we fight much more often than over men.

We’re definitely are own worst enemies. And normally when this does occur, in my experience it’s nearly always are so called friends who stab you in the back and set you against someone.

I couldn’t have said it better your spot on, that’s exactly what happened to me I’ve never expected to be stabbed in the back by her

[KateA - The Devil In Heels]

Ok, this is slightly off topic…so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I’ve been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer… which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

[Olga]

Ok, this is slightly off topic…so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I’ve been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer… which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Your question is very difficult. I can't answer it definitively. Do I trust my friend... Yes. Would I agree if she spent the weekend in a country house with my man... No.

[Olga]

Thanks to everyone who shared their opinions. As I said, I asked this question to my friends in real life, but they weren't interested in fighting; many of them had never even fought. This group is made up of girls who enjoy fighting in one way or another. So, it's even more interesting to hear your opinions.

[KateA - The Devil In Heels]

Ok, this is slightly off topic…so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I’ve been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer… which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Your question is very difficult. I can't answer it definitively. Do I trust my friend... Yes. Would I agree if she spent the weekend in a country house with my man... No.

Hehe great example Olga. But I was thinking about something more along the lines of this:

Do you trust your friends not to lie about you or gossip about you behind your back?

Do you trust them to have your back, if say on a night out 2-3 girls wanted trouble?

Xoxo
Kate

[_Ruslana_]

Ok, this is slightly off topic…so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I’ve been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer… which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

I agree with Olga on this issue. I trust my friends, but not always. For example, I also wouldn't trust even my best friend with anything related to my relationship with my boyfriend.
Let me add one more thing about trust and friends. If you get into a random fight and your ass gets kicked in that fight, then don't expect your friends to get into that fight and save your ass.

[KateA - The Devil In Heels]

Ok, this is slightly off topic…so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I’ve been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer… which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Let me add one more thing about trust and friends. If you get into a random fight and your ass gets kicked in that fight, then don't expect your friends to get into that fight and save your ass.

This is an absolute given, as long as it’s one on one and both participants want to fight…then everyone else should stay out of their personal business. But if 2-3 girls were squaring up to you, would you trust your friends to step forward and have your back?

When I ask myself that question my answer is perhaps, maybe…