[_Ruslana_]

Ok, this is slightly off topic…so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I’ve been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer… which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Let me add one more thing about trust and friends. If you get into a random fight and your ass gets kicked in that fight, then don't expect your friends to get into that fight and save your ass.

This is an absolute given, as long as it’s one on one and both participants want to fight…then everyone else should stay out of their personal business. But if 2-3 girls were squaring up to you, would you trust your friends to step forward and have your back?

When I ask myself that question my answer is perhaps, maybe…

After what happened to me once, I'm not sure if my friends would get into a fight, even if 2-3 girls attacked me. Three years ago, I got into a drunken fight against a bitch. I was in the company of 2 of my friends and this bitch was in the company of her friend. We fought 1 on 1 and it was fair. But it was very bad that at the moment when I had already lost and was lying beaten on the ground, this bitch continued to beat me (she literally punched me in the face and head), my friends did not even try to stop this fight. They were just watching that bitch smash my face. After the fight, they told me that they did not try to stop the fight because they were afraid of being beaten.

[KateA - The Devil In Heels]

Ok, this is slightly off topic…so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I’ve been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer… which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Let me add one more thing about trust and friends. If you get into a random fight and your ass gets kicked in that fight, then don't expect your friends to get into that fight and save your ass.

This is an absolute given, as long as it’s one on one and both participants want to fight…then everyone else should stay out of their personal business. But if 2-3 girls were squaring up to you, would you trust your friends to step forward and have your back?

When I ask myself that question my answer is perhaps, maybe…

After what happened to me once, I'm not sure if my friends would get into a fight, even if 2-3 girls attacked me. Three years ago, I got into a drunken fight against a bitch. I was in the company of 2 of my friends and this bitch was in the company of her friend. We fought 1 on 1 and it was fair. But it was very bad that at the moment when I had already lost and was lying beaten on the ground, this bitch continued to beat me (she literally punched me in the face and head), my friends did not even try to stop this fight. They were just watching that bitch smash my face. After the fight, they told me that they did not try to stop the fight because they were afraid of being beaten.

That’s horrible but I think you would agree it’s an occupational hazard for those who fight. However it says a lot about your inner strength and character that you’re still fighting

However those friends of yours…I’m not sure I would believe them myself.

[Olga]

Ok, this is slightly off topic…so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I’ve been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer… which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Let me add one more thing about trust and friends. If you get into a random fight and your ass gets kicked in that fight, then don't expect your friends to get into that fight and save your ass.

This is an absolute given, as long as it’s one on one and both participants want to fight…then everyone else should stay out of their personal business. But if 2-3 girls were squaring up to you, would you trust your friends to step forward and have your back?

When I ask myself that question my answer is perhaps, maybe…

Let me try to explain. I could get into trouble when I was a schoolgirl. Back then, my friends and I would get into a fight with another group or something like that. I'm unlikely to get into a street fight right now. But even if that happens, it's important which of my friends is by my side. She may be a wonderful woman, but she's never been in a fight, and the very prospect of being beaten terrifies her. And although I trust her, she won't be able to help me in a fight. At best, she might call the police. And if, for example, Daria or Lenka are with me, then there is no doubt that they will definitely help me.

[DS79]

I can understand the friends' feelings, as I've seen friends who intervened to stop it get beaten up themselves. You have to consider how many girls you're up against and how mean they are.

[_Ruslana_]

However those friends of yours…I’m not sure I would believe them myself.

As far as I know, both of my friends have never fought (except for their school days), but one of them is a girl who is just under 180 centimeters tall and weighs about 75 kilograms. They had a good chance of stopping the fight. At least they could have just screamed and called for help, but they didn't. Whatever you understand, at that moment it was no longer a fight, but a beating, and it could have ended more cruelly for me than a broken nose and a broken face.

[KateA - The Devil In Heels]

However those friends of yours…I’m not sure I would believe them myself.

As far as I know, both of my friends have never fought (except for their school days), but one of them is a girl who is just under 180 centimeters tall and weighs about 75 kilograms. They had a good chance of stopping the fight. At least they could have just screamed and called for help, but they didn't. Whatever you understand, at that moment it was no longer a fight, but a beating, and it could have ended more cruelly for me than a broken nose and a broken face.

Exactly, when us girls choose to fight (Or boys for that matter) we enter an unspoken contract which basically says we’re both going to walk away from this. A beat down like the one you received is too much, far too much and the bitch could have easily ruined two life’s that night!

I’m not the nicest girl after all catfight, I will admit that. But what I unleash after a fight is more of a psychological attack, I will always try to put the fear of god into my rival. Then hopefully the bitch will have the sense in the future to stay the fuck out of my business and life. Does my tactic work? I would say the jury is still deliberating on that one.

Xoxo
Kate

[Alexandra X]

Ok, this is slightly off topic…so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I’ve been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer… which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Your question is very difficult. I can't answer it definitively. Do I trust my friend... Yes. Would I agree if she spent the weekend in a country house with my man... No.

Hehe great example Olga. But I was thinking about something more along the lines of this:

Do you trust your friends not to lie about you or gossip about you behind your back?

Do you trust them to have your back, if say on a night out 2-3 girls wanted trouble?

Xoxo
Kate

I once had a best friend. We used to get into the most ridiculous adventures together. We even had to fight. We always had each other's backs. Even if it was two against three, or even five. We got beaten up, but neither of us ever ran away or abandoned our friend. When we were beaten, we returned home together, helping each other, all in pain and tears. But I was sure that she would never betray me, just as I would never betray her. Did I trust her? Yes. I trusted her as I trusted myself.

I don't have a friend like that right now. I have Liz and Victoria. They're good, but Victoria has never fought with anyone in her life. I don't think she could help me in any way. As for Liz, I'm quite sure that even though we have a complicated relationship (but that's a whole other story), she'll intervene if I have problems. I'm talking about fighting.