I don't even know where to begin on this subject. When I joined here, it seemed like a cool place to indulge my fetish. However, now it seems as if my perception may be wrong.
In an arena such as this, one would think the term RESPECT would be at the forefront. We all have our own personal reasons for being here, and it certainly should matter not whether one is straight, gay, bi, tg,ts,cd, etc. The common bound is that we are here because we LIKE it, it being catfights. We each get to sit behind out computers, type away, and feed our own beasts so to speak. Hating on someone for their appearance has no place in the world, especially in a fetish venue.
NO ONE here has the right to judge ANYONE for ANY personal choice whatsoever on any front. As Gemma stated, 99% of the planet probably would judge us for sharing this little fetish. They most likely would cast a scorn eye towards us. Why do many people here use fake pics and screen names, instead of one's own real pic and legal name?? Most likely to avoid the judgmental nature of society, and we should all be able to relate to that.
For the record, I have no tattoos, only because I have a portrait I want done, and I have yet to find an artist who, in my opinion, would be able to accurately re-create the photo. Maybe I have learned something here tonight - maybe I need to learn to accept the flaws and the flourishes of the final product. While I do not have any ink, and I have no been subjected to any verbal assaults, I can empathize with Gemma and others who are ostracized because of their tattoos. You see, I have facial scars, most of which are a result of an industrial accident. I don't have to deal with the verbal comments, I deal with the turning away of heads, the covering of children's mouths, and the admonishment from parents not to stare or point. I totally understand the point of view from our lovely ink laded ladies in terms of dealing with the choices they made.
We should be united here in this forum; instead wisps of scorn and judgment are now seep forth. People who live in glass houses should most definitely not cast the first stone. It is only due to their classy nature that proud tattooed ladies such as Desert Rat Paula and Gemma have not tossed the second stone.