Welching on a bet

[Don Tmater]

Give me your opinion

[Sheila]

If you want to keep your girlfriend , you would not have sex with the other girl at all.

pete

Pete is quite right but your girlfriend should have never made the bet in the first place.  This makes YOU the loser.  Do you take your prize and probably lose your girlfriend or does your girlfriend lose her honor?  You're between a rock and a hard place.

[Ronnie123]

Give me your opinion

You must honor the bet. I had this exact same situation happen to me. I ended up losing my girlfriend, but you have to honor the bet, otherwise it meant nothing in the first place. If the stakes weren't real it invalidates the entire fight. If your girlfriend made the bet and lost that's her issue. She should realize that when making a bet like that you need to be able to fight for you mans honor.

It may seem strange, foreign, and even wrong initially, but in my case I found the sex with the woman who destroyed my girlfriend to be absolutely mind blowing, it was the best I've ever had. The atmosphere and circumstances just combine to make it extra wild.

So basically if you allowed them to fight after the decision was made then yes you should follow through. I'd imagine their are some girls out there who actually have honor and would respect you more for sleeping with the victor to honor the bet. In order to respect themselves they would willingly accept the fact that you have to sleep with the victor. No matter how emotionally devastating it is to them.

It's not even like the guy always leaves after the sex. The sex might have been terrible, and even in cases where it was amazing, like mine, I still told my girlfriend I was willing to stay in the relationship if she was. Unfortunately, she didn't think before she made the bet, which is why she just couldn't deal with me sleeping with another woman.

[Ronnie123]

Yes I would stay with her, as long as she understood my duty to honor the bet she made.

The sex would be a one time thing. Unless of course she bets me and loses again.

[Ronnie123]

It's also worth noting that even if your girlfriend doesn't initially agree with your decision to honor the bet she may come around later, when she realizes you're merely doing it to keep the integrity of the bet. This happened with my partner.

[Ronnie123]

Give me your opinion

You must honor the bet. I had this exact same situation happen to me. I ended up losing my girlfriend, but you have to honor the bet, otherwise it meant nothing in the first place. If the stakes weren't real it invalidates the entire fight. If your girlfriend made the bet and lost that's her issue. She should realize that when making a bet like that you need to be able to fight for you mans honor.

It may seem strange, foreign, and even wrong initially, but in my case I found the sex with the woman who destroyed my girlfriend to be absolutely mind blowing, it was the best I've ever had. The atmosphere and circumstances just combine to make it extra wild.

So basically if you allowed them to fight after the decision was made then yes you should follow through. I'd imagine their are some girls out there who actually have honor and would respect you more for sleeping with the victor to honor the bet. In order to respect themselves they would willingly accept the fact that you have to sleep with the victor. No matter how emotionally devastating it is to them.

It's not even like the guy always leaves after the sex. The sex might have been terrible, and even in cases where it was amazing, like mine, I still told my girlfriend I was willing to stay in the relationship if she was. Unfortunately, she didn't think before she made the bet, which is why she just couldn't deal with me sleeping with another woman.

Curious here, on this end, if someone bet their bf on a fight (such as in the case of nonothing's girl),  if she lost and you still loved her more than the other, what would you do? Would you stay with her still or not?

I'm also curious as to your feelings on the issue.

[Candace]

Ok, let me throw a twist into this.  Let's say your girlfriend won the fight.  Would you want to watch her #$!king the other guy?  How would YOU feel about her after that?

[Ronnie123]

Ok, let me throw a twist into this.  Let's say your girlfriend won the fight.  Would you want to watch her #$!king the other guy?  How would YOU feel about her after that?

I admit it would be absolutely awful to watch her fuck another guy, but in the case you mentioned I'd have to keep in mind that she was doing it to humiliate the other fighter, not in spite on me. It would obviously be hard to take in the moment, but I'd try my best to keep perspective on things to prevent it from ruining our relationship.

[Candace]

Ok, let me throw a twist into this.  Let's say your girlfriend won the fight.  Would you want to watch her #$!king the other guy?  How would YOU feel about her after that?

I admit it would be absolutely awful to watch her fuck another guy, but in the case you mentioned I'd have to keep in mind that she was doing it to humiliate the other fighter, not in spite on me. It would obviously be hard to take in the moment, but I'd try my best to keep perspective on things to prevent it from ruining our relationship.

That's really a good question you posed.  Personally I'd never agree to stakes like that unless WE happened to know the other couple rather well.

[Ronnie123]

Thinking about it more I think a more appropriate question would be what if I lost a fight and my girlfriend had sex with the guy who beat me due to a bet I made before hand.

Obviously, I would be devastated that my girlfriend is sleeping with the man that just emasculated me in front of her in the ring, but at the same time I would have to honor the bet I made. It was my fault because I made a bet I shouldn't have made due to being overconfident and my girlfriend didn't attempt to stop the fight from happening so she was obviously ok with the rules.

I would just suffer through that moment and try to put it behind me. If she wasn't still into me after sleeping with him then we weren't meant to be anyways. If she was still into me and just had sex to honor the bet then I would respect her for that and not let it affect the relationship.

I'm just a firm believer in taking responsibility for your actions, no matter how messed up /stupid they are.

[Ronnie123]

Ok, let me throw a twist into this.  Let's say your girlfriend won the fight.  Would you want to watch her #$!king the other guy?  How would YOU feel about her after that?

I admit it would be absolutely awful to watch her fuck another guy, but in the case you mentioned I'd have to keep in mind that she was doing it to humiliate the other fighter, not in spite on me. It would obviously be hard to take in the moment, but I'd try my best to keep perspective on things to prevent it from ruining our relationship.

That's really a good question you posed.  Personally I'd never agree to stakes like that unless WE happened to know the other couple rather well.

You asked me the question didn't you? lol : )

Yeah, I know what you mean. The thing is though you'd be surprised how the heat of the moment can change things. If their is a ton of animosity in the air between the fighters your so intent on winning, embarrassing,  and humiliating your opponent that you say things wihtout thinking them through. When you're in that mindset you don't even think about the possibility of you losing the fight. At least, that's what my partner told me after I asked her why she agreed to the stakes last time.

Apparently, the same thing happened to her again this time. It's just like an overriding feeling of confidence you get where you feel like you can't lose I guess. You kinda know what I mean?

[Ronnie123]

Yes I would stay with her, as long as she understood my duty to honor the bet she made.

The sex would be a one time thing. Unless of course she bets me and loses again.

No I meant like fighting strictly to have the guy, not just for sex even. In the case of nonothing's girl brittany, I believe that's what it was stipulated as for the battle with Meghan.

Oh, well in that case I'd just stay with whomever I loved. I mean think of it this way. It doesn't matter who is "forced' to walk out with who due to the bet, right? Because even if I "won" someone in a fight that I didn't "love" I could always break up with them whenever I wanted and vise versa. So eventually both people would go back to the people they originally loved.

The only way what your saying could work and last would be if the person truly had a change of heart after watching the girls fight and having sex with the winner.

You know what I'm getting at?

[Don Tmater]

Just to clarify: we met this girl at a bar, my g/f accused her of flirting with me, and that lead to the challenge being issued. My girlfriend's opponent does not have a boyfriend.

[Ronnie123]

Just to clarify: we met this girl at a bar, my g/f accused her of flirting with me, and that lead to the challenge being issued. My girlfriend's opponent does not have a boyfriend.

So your girlfriend lost the fight?

Or are they going to fight in the future with those stakes and you don't know what to do?

After hearing the replies how do you feel about the issue?

[Don Tmater]

Yeah, it happened already and she lost. I honored the bet and i  am paying for it now. In my mind i did the right" thing. I'm just trying to see what other relatively likeminded people think the right thing was.

[Don Tmater]