[1000castaway]

ITS GOTTEN EZ FOR ME TO TELL MY LADY FRIENDS

[JT Edson]

How do you tell them? How do they react?

JT

[mMikebl]

Your relationship will never be the same.  Either she will be appalled or she will be intriqued.  She will not be neutral and merely accepting.  She might not like it because 1) it is not acceptable to her idea of proper behavior, 2) she is afraid you will want her to fight 3) she thinks you are weird for thinking of it.  She might like it because she 1) secretly has the same fetish  2) really wants to know the real you.   

[caryn1]

from a woman's point of view i agree.  but deep down most women cannot help liking catfights.  but in most circles it is not accepted, so most keep it hidden deeply.  most women even though they do not know it try to one up each other.  just look at our clothes.

[Bear]

I never told my wife and kept it hidden for decades.  When she found it, she was somewhat appalled just like mMike says, and the three reasons he lists for her being so are right on the money.  Regarding reason #2, there's a funny story that goes along with that.  One time I asked her if she'd like to know what my ultimate fantasy was.  She remained quiet, which in "wife speak" means "no."  However, legally speaking, silence means consent, as I pointed out.  So I told her that I would love to see her wrestle her twin sister.  Of course she has no twin, not even a sister.  I remember her nervous laugh of relief and then blurting out, "so that will never happen........"  I've never gone there since. 

Caryn's point is also dead on, women are constantly competing -- everything and everywhere. 

[caryn1]

what about a woman telling her boy friend or husband about her hobby or activity

[1000castaway]

MY LATEST LADYFRIEND KNOWS AND SHE WAS OK WITH IT I'V EVEN MERGED IT WITH SEX TALK I'LL SAY SOMTHING LIKE U GONNA SMACK A BITCH FOR THIS DICK OR U GONNA BITCH UP IF SHE TRY TO TAKE YA DICK STUFF LIKE THAT

[femalewrestlingchannel]

Everything in life is a matter of proper framing.   Easy to imagine, but not always easy to do.

In my experience, I hid this stuff for years, but over the last couple of years I have started to be more open about it with close friends, and I find a lot of my guy friends like this stuff.   (not as much as me, but they certainly appreciate the sexuality of it all and wouldn't cringe watching it).

My confidence grew from that and I started telling more women from time to time.   This is numerous women in nightclubs, mutual friends, close female friends, and so on.   Would test it on girls not close to my social circle before I started telling those who were within.  Not everyone in my circle knows exactly what I do, or knows about my sites specifically, but they know I'm involved "somehow".    I'm vague and normally talk in generalities on purpose in the real world when discussing this stuff.

People do judge.  If you want to get a high level job doing something you probably won't put on your resume that your line of work includes the female wrestling industry.   (as one example of many)

The reaction is normally about 90 percent positive with the ladies. No joke.  The worse thing you will get is a weird look and maybe a comment that it is "creepy" or something.   You should never react to women, anyhow, and when they pull that crap you blow that shit off, reverse it on them, and take back control of the conversation.

Don't ever let a girl pull that crap with you and then let her get away with it.

Framing.

Again, it's a matter of framing, not everyone can do it the same, and it would take me all night to discuss the methods.   

As to the subject of this posting.........I've started a serious relationship with a new girl and I have shared much of "what I do on the side" with her.   I've showed her the Catfight Fantasy Girls videos, some interviews, and a few other things, but not a ton.  I'm not yet at the point where I can say she "likes it", but I can say she certainly doesn't mind it, and she seems to talk about "kicking girls asses" a lot more since I told her which is always kind of appealing.

I would like to keep it to the realm of fantasy with her because she is a gorgeous little "powderpuff" as I call her.   The psychology, of course, belies the point that she doesn't like being a "powderpuff" and wrestles really hard with me to try to prove me wrong.   The label was purposeful and has brought me fruit many times.
 
So not only is she incredibly supportive, and tells me to do what will make me happy, but hell, maybe someday she will even wrestle for me.   

Very little surprises me so you never know!

In any case, it's always better to start by testing things.   For instance, in some cases, if I hear a girl I like talking about another girl she doesn't like..........I will say something akin to.........."well.....if you kick her ass.........make sure you youtube it for me babe".

(example conversation of mine from a few months ago)
ME:  Well.....if you kick her ass.........make sure you youtube it for me.
HER:   Oh really?  You like that kind of thing huh?
ME:   Babe...........You on top of another girl......asserting your dominance........showing everyone who is the better woman?   You betcha.
HER:  Interesting......
ME:   But.....if you lose.......I would dump you like a bad habit.
HER:  Oh really!

As long as you don't over-do it and do a little "push-pull" you can pick vibes up.   However, the easiest way is to have a strong relationship where you trust each other early, work off a relationship foundation that requires honesty, and then just lay it out there.

If not..........throw bait..........but be wise about it.

However, just wait until you hear some of the fetishes that women have out there when you start getting intimate with them. 

You won't feel so "out in the woods" afterall I can assure you.   

[shefightsgirls]

Your right, women are always comparing themselves to other women. That's the start of the appeal to watch 2 women fight.

I've always fantasized about my wife or girlfriend in a real wrestling match as you see in DWW or ECNWC and would I really urge her to fight with all the risks?

I think most women would be afraid to be labeled a slut or whore for the same reason some won't perform specific kinky sex acts in bed.

I worked with 2 dozen female nurses and am familiar with how nasty a woman can be, at least around other women, being really friendly to a woman until they walk away the gossip about her flows.
When a new nurse starts and is a knock-out the jealousy rages at first.

The question is a good one, from all this natural jealousy and envy how many of these woman would be willing to confront another to prove the better woman, regardless of the format?