yes you may call it "gutless" and yes i have seen this happen in multi girl fights,cheer teams,gangs. when you girl friend is getting beat up and you can stop it you go after the girl doing the damage to your friend. guess i am interested in if a girl diss you and then turns her back to you do you then tap her on the shoulder and maybe say "excuse me" to her before you punch her,"rock her world so to speak",or do you just swing first?