[cooper4]

 In an irl submission wrestling match.  Do you believe,  the winner of the first fight, usually wins the rematch if and when they have one?.   As is often the case in any competiton, when the two competitors don't know each other the battle is intense with neither side wanting to give in.

However, once one person (or team) establishes themself (itself) as superior to the other, the subsequent rematch-ups tend to be more one-sided.

[cooper4]

I think sometimes if a fight was more one-sided andthen later the winner wants a rematch, sometimes the loser has a self-confidence problem because she lost the first fight.  However, she doesn't want too lose face by backing down.

In her mind, she really doesn't think she can win, and that's apart of the reason they lose.