I like to see a more sensual fight for domination. The RULES that we have set up in the past allows moderate hair pulling, tripping, kicking, leg scissors, face sitting, reverse face sitting, breast smothering, and foot chokes, and foot smothering. No punching, no slapping, no eye gauging, no stomping, no elbows, no pinching, no biting. This reduces the chance for serious injury and bruises, but, allows for domination and humiliation. We like when the loser has hurt feelings, but not a hurt body so much. Yes, there is some pain, discomfort, it is a fighting match, but, nothing crazy or out of hand.