[hunter85]

hi all
i am 28 years old
from beggining 16 years old i am interesting in catfights/girlfight.it began first when i saw fighting of two girls at school
so now i cant avoid of thinking about it.almost every day  i watch catfight videos on youtube and in different web resources.i read catfight stories with pleasure.because all that turn me on.when i watch how crystal or ecnwc girs fight i got erection.when i read pracer's moms fight story i got arouse and finish.
so the catfight is the only source of my  excitment
i have a girl.she  knows about my interest but she dont like such things  .so the problem is that i cant imagine her in catfight,and that is why she doesnt turn me on at all.and of course i cant get erection while doing sex with her
so in order to get excitment i must be able to imagine the girl in catfight situation.i like when girl or woman talk about fights.i try to make them to continue it.but i dont say them that "i like catfights and please tell me about your fights or the fights you have seen".
Even when some girl  accindently say something about fight it turns me on
i dont live in USA.in our country people even dont know whay is catfight,i mean  the term of catfight.and women fight is not so often happened.
so i am getting pleasure only by externeal resources.i went to doctors to check up my health.all the analises is OK.i think i have some psycological problem may be
but in our country there is no such kind of specialsit (may be i am wrong ) whom i can visit and say that  i have depemdence of catfight

what do you think of that situation?Is this a sexual deviancy...I have seen in many places that catfight lovers are sadist...And one thing i want to clarify is that i am not a sadist.... I tried hard to avoid seeing catfight videos...But i simply cant do it...Is there any method to stop it...And will this affect a future family life?

PS
can you advise me some good resource in the internet where i can talk online or get an advice from professional sexologist?


thanks to all.glad to hear your opinions

[Corbin2012]

hey you.
this is a highly interesting subject U R bringing up here. First and foremost I would like to sustain the answer you have received so far. I am a little bit short of time right now, but i will delve into your issue more profoundly later and come back to you. Greets, C

[LuvFemFights]

WOW........I just THOUGHT I had it bad!  I think it is safe to say that all male members of this site share your interest to some extent .  Otherwise why would we be here?  I have had an interest myself for as long as I can remember.  It began for me well before I became sexually aware or active.  It's just always been there.  It's not something I think about constantly or obsess over but I think my interests are likely as strong as any in this regard.  I am in the US and have never had any real personal exposure either.  So I always felt that it was a slightly unusual interest and that not that many women were into it.  In other words I didn't know many women were interested in wrestling or fighting themselves.  This site has opened my eyes a bit.  Glad I finally found it.  I have surfed around it for years, literally and finally took a closer look.  Wish I had sooner because I would be one of the "old timers" by now and who knows what might be......

[LuvFemFights]

Sorry, my log in was about to time out.....hate when that happens.

Anyway what I was trying to say is explore this site a little and figure out what it is about.  Try to make contact with some IRL women here that can give you some perspective.  I have reached out to some and have found a few that are willing to share some about their interest and experience.  They know who they are and they have been GREAT!!! and I have sincerely appreciated the dialogue.  I have also reached out to others and received no response which is certainly to be expected.  Just like in life.....some people are nice and have a caring mentality and some are not and just don't want to be bothered.

Try this yourself.  But don't get discouraged.  Be respectful and sincere........it can't hurt to ask.
I think it will help you to more fully understand your interest.  It has me and as I said, I'm new here.  I am by no means finished exploring or pursuing either.  A better understanding might be your best first step in answer to your question.

[Jebediah Morningside]

Well, there are two factors here.  First, is an interest in (or arousal from) female fighting "normal"?  There are a lot of users on this site, and I'd hazard a guess that the substantial majority are pretty well-adjusted individuals.  This is no more or less unusual than any other 'fetish' that people enjoy, and considerably less extreme than many.  While it's virtually impossible to give a hard and fast definition to "normal", I think in the greater scheme of things there's nothing wrong with this fetish.

However, there's another issue brought up in the original note that hasn't really been addressed.  Hunter85 states that catfights are "all than turn [him] on" and that "the catfight is the only source of [his] excitement".  He goes on to explain that this is causing both sexual and relationship problems with his girlfriend.  IMO, that's a classic example of something that's crossed the line from an interest into an obsession, and in the process has become unhealthy.  I don't know where online (or IRL, for that matter) to get advice from a professional sexologist, but honestly in this case I'd say it's a good idea. 

Put another way, fetishes are fine.  Letting them rule you is not.

-JM

[T aka Tony]

 

[Horny-Jew]

Catfights get me aroused also, but only if the women are not getting hurt. I do NOT enjoy any real fights between women and I will do everything I can to stop those.

Don't let catfights take over your life. This wonderful site is just for entertainment. Don't take it too seriously. Seek professional help if necessary.

All the Best.

[hunter1985]

is it obsession?