I'd say let her take the lead.
You say you're 'trying to explore.' You know what you want, you've just got to guide her to it at a pace she's comfortable with.
Get her in the mood, gauge when she's hot for the idea (amongst other things). Then maybe ask questions, leading ones. Don't press, let her go at her own pace. It's about exploration for her and you don't want to stifle it.
It'll come (no pun intended lol).