[WJcouple]

Is a women who is experienced in arranged fighting more likely to engage in a spontaneous fight in comparison to a woman with no experience at arranged fighting engaging in a spontaneous fight?

[sue5159]

I rarely comment here but this topic got my attention. I have had a few spontaneous fights and in all of these situations I believed was given no choice. After trying arranged matches with a few gals I met on this site who lived within a reasonable distance I have not gotten into anymore unplanned scraps in public. It is so unpredictable and I consider myself lucky that in my past spontaneous confrontations things did not turn out badly. When out clubbing with friends and I encounter an obnoxious gal who wants to start something or if I am on the wrong end of a shove I simply remove myself from the situation. I still like a good competitive fight, however now I know a few gals that if I choose I can have matches with at mutually convenient times and I know it will be a safe controlled environment.

[sinclairfan]

But (Sue especially)--isn't there a hybrid of arranged and spontaneous?  Isn't there an unplanned fight against someone you've known for years, who you knew you would fight someday?

[sue5159]

But (Sue especially)--isn't there a hybrid of arranged and spontaneous?  Isn't there an unplanned fight against someone you've known for years, who you knew you would fight someday?

It hasn't happened since high school but if there is someone I truly wanted to fight due to some ongoing animosity, I would propose we meet somewhere in private away from everyone to settle things. I wouldn't start throwing punches in a public place and risk all kinds of bad consequences.

[sinclairfan]

An ex of mine got an invitation to a fight like that and said NO WAY--she thought it was a setup to getting jumped.

[sue5159]

An ex of mine got an invitation to a fight like that and said NO WAY--she thought it was a setup to getting jumped.

While that is a possibility if you're dealing with younger wild gals its not so likely with women my age.  I would never have some stranger over to my place to fight. It would be somewhere private but neutral if that situation every arose.

[eileen311960]

Some years back in a club parking lot I got into a fight with this younger skank with tattoos who had some ax to grind with me and I never met her before. She was wasted. She tried to grab me forward by the hair and I punched her hard in the face and she landed on her ass. I stood there waiting for her to get up and she looked out of it. I started walking to my car and all of a sudden I hearing her yelling for me to meet at her place. She staggers up to me and points to this small rundown house around the corner from the club and kept daring me to come with her. She grabbed my arm and i pulled it away and shoved her full full force and she landed on the ground. I hurried into my car and drove away. She had a few of her young punky friends with her and I wasn't going to take the chance of getting jumped in some strange house.

[JT Edson]

Some years back in a club parking lot I got into a fight with this younger skank with tattoos who had some ax to grind with me and I never met her before. She was wasted. She tried to grab me forward by the hair and I punched her hard in the face and she landed on her ass. I stood there waiting for her to get up and she looked out of it. I started walking to my car and all of a sudden I hearing her yelling for me to meet at her place. She staggers up to me and points to this small rundown house around the corner from the club and kept daring me to come with her. She grabbed my arm and i pulled it away and shoved her full full force and she landed on the ground. I hurried into my car and drove away. She had a few of her young punky friends with her and I wasn't going to take the chance of getting jumped in some strange house.

A wise decision not to go to her house.