I know im a guy, but me and my gf share my profile, and I can tell you that we host and travel to private matches all the time. We both train for bodybuilding and boxing, so setting up competitive fights of various sorts in private setting adds a great erotic and competitive side to our relationship, as im sure she agrees. We have not really had too many bad experiences so far, but there have been some bad set-ups. The main issues have been people lying about their appearance and there experience when setting up a match with people we've found online (even on this very website). There has been a time when we were prepared for a brutal match between my girl and this big mouth challenger, and it ended up being a one sided beat down, where this would-be experienced brawler just ran from my girl and tried to avoid punishment (unsuccessfully i might add), and after her ass kicking she just submitted to sexual humiliation with no resistance (it was a pathetic fight performance on her part, especially when she claimed to be an experienced street fighter with background in mma, and posted muscular pictures of herself which were totally photo shopped; she was really just a skinny sado that wanted to be beat down by a real fighter, and have sex afterwards which is fine but she didnt have to get us hyped up for a real fight). Then we had an experience where we hosted a private match at our condo (we have a room with padded walls and floor mats corner to corner where we train and do private matches), and the opponents were a couple who were both steroid pumping bodybuilder types, but claimed they had no real training in any form of fighting, yet they loved to wrestle against other couples and see where things lead, but they lied; first they politely invited us to box, and not only did i personally get brutally beat up by Rich (who was the guy i fought in my match), but my gf also lost terribly to this juggernaut chick who busted her up badly but had tremendous height and weight advantage and lied about not being extremely well trained and even more experienced (chances are they are on this site and will eventually see my posts), and to make matters worst as banged up as we were they still both required sexual humiliation after we lost (which was a horrific experience for me, because prior to this i had never been humiliated as man before, nor had i ever been forced to sexually submit to a man, it was my first taste of what jail must be like). So always be careful about people who lie about what they intend to do when fighting. Also be aware of posers because some people are on sites like this just fantasizing about fighting but they go as far as to set up a real match and have u waiting to host them or travel to them then they cancel and never speak to u again once they see you're really about this shit.
Overall hosting and traveling too private matches has been a great experience, and has done wonders for me and my lady in our relationship, our fighting skills, and the number of friends we've made who we can challenge and keep in contact with forever. As a well rounded fighter who loves all types of fights I can tell you there is only small niche of people out there who really enjoy private matches and will not set u up or stand u up, and if you are careful but determined, you can really find good matches and make new friends along the way who will help you find other opponents and challenges in the future. Private fighting is real, but like Yvonne said it can be dangerous so know all the risks involved and know how to look for signs in would-be opponents to determine if they are real or just full of shit.......and this is not a shot at the other guy on this posts, but you should never be obligated to pay anyone to brawl with you especially on the competitive side. People should do these matches because they love fighting, despite the pain it can cause, and those are the people who fight the best and who you will get the most benefit out of facing. I've set monetary wagers on fights ive had and those my gf enters, but its never a requirement, and never should be. A great monetary wager on a private match is for the loser to pay for the cost of the venue in full if its in a hotel or similar setting. Any opponent you agree to meet with to face in a private match should get as much joy out fighting you as you do fighting them, and if they dont then their not the right person to have a private match with!!!
