[fighttime67]

I recently posted a poll between my ex and my current wife...
http://www.freecatfights.com/forums/index.php/topic,39038.0.html


My ex, Danina, has told me she would get off on fighting my wife for me if I really want her to. I think she wants to show me that she'll fight for me. She says my wife should fight for me too if she really loves me. I guess my question is.....should I let it happen?

[Catfight Super Fan]

No..Because youe ex wife will dramatically lost the fight! Ending the match destroyed..And you don't really want that this appens...

[daz]

if your wife shares your interests, then why not.     one of my regrets was not letting my partner have a match for me.  we both knew she would lose and lose badly but it actually turned her on.   plus it depends on the rules.

[sinclairfan]

Out of curiosity, why did you and Danina split up?

[fighttime67]

It could create a messy situation w/your wife.....might be fun to watch/fantasize about but the reality could bring about some consequences. Are you willing to accept them? That's the question I would ask myself. May wanna tread carefully on this one.....perhaps talk to your wife about what could happen before you decide as well.

Just my two cents, take them as you will.

I agree that I need to think about what the consequences might be if I were to let this become a reality. I love my wife dearly and know she loves me. She has known of my catfight fetish since we met and has said that she would fight for me one day. Danina and I were together 20 years ago, and she LOVED getting me hot with catfight stories etc. She has always been a scrapper and enjoys it almost as much as I do I think. She was just a little too crazy and we split up after about 6 months....6 intense months. I guess she has spent some time in prison since I saw her last which made her even harder than she was before. When I talked to her the other day, she said that if my wife was in jail with her she would have probably beaten her ass and then raped her. Its that kind of talk that worries me about really letting my wife fight her. I think she might be able to hurt my wife badly...but then again, I might regret not letting it happen.....Its a dilemma

[LUCKYODAY9]

Don't let this opportunity slip away. Encourage them to fight. It's something that may happen once in your lifetime. Of course, in your case, you need to establish some agreed upon rules ( eg. no punching, no eye gouging, no raping). I'm assuming you'll be present to ensure that the rules are adhered to and that no one gets seriously injured. Your wife may even surprise you. good luck.

[fighttime67]

Don't let this opportunity slip away. Encourage them to fight. It's something that may happen once in your lifetime. Of course, in your case, you need to establish some agreed upon rules ( eg. no punching, no eye gouging, no raping). I'm assuming you'll be present to ensure that the rules are adhered to and that no one gets seriously injured. Your wife may even surprise you. good luck.

I will try to be there for sure. I wouldnt miss it for the world. The only thing that scares me is the possibility of me not being there when it happens.

[TheWatchman504]

If they both wanted to fight each other I would empty out a room in your house grab a camera to record it for later memories and enjoy it. Because it probably will never happen again.

[fighttime67]

If they both wanted to fight each other I would empty out a room in your house grab a camera to record it for later memories and enjoy it. Because it probably will never happen again.

I asked my wife if she would be willing to fight Danina for me while we were having sex last night. She said she would fight anyone for me if I really wanted her to. She has never seen Danina before though, I will show her a picture tonight and see if she still wants to.

[lumberjack66]

I think I am going to go against the flow here and say no to your wife fighting the Ex.  It is a sexy idea worthy of fantasy, foreplay, and pollfights, but way too many landmines in that field to make it a reality.  There is a reason the ex is the ex.  She is fighting to get back in the picture and unless you want her in the picture say no.  You might say she is out of the picture as soon as they fight, but she is already back in the picture if they fight.  It would be different if they both wanted to fight each other to settle the score (maybe the wife stole you from the ex, maybe they always hated each other, maybe they fought before but not to a conclusion), or if they were fighting over you while you were dating.  But you already picked and married your champion.  What you really have to ask is what is the worst case senario?  As I see it, they fight, ex wins, wife divorces you and takes you to the cleaners for having your ex beat her up, and then you remember why the ex is the ex and you end up alone.  If your wife is willing to fight you are the luckiest man on the planet and I hate you!!!  Find somebody else for her to fight without all the extra-curricular emotional entanglements.  You'll both be much happier in the long run I think.

[fighttime67]

Not a good idea at all.

I think I am going to go against the flow here and say no to your wife fighting the Ex.  It is a sexy idea worthy of fantasy, foreplay, and pollfights, but way too many landmines in that field to make it a reality.  There is a reason the ex is the ex.  She is fighting to get back in the picture and unless you want her in the picture say no.  You might say she is out of the picture as soon as they fight, but she is already back in the picture if they fight.  It would be different if they both wanted to fight each other to settle the score (maybe the wife stole you from the ex, maybe they always hated each other, maybe they fought before but not to a conclusion), or if they were fighting over you while you were dating.  But you already picked and married your champion.  What you really have to ask is what is the worst case senario?  As I see it, they fight, ex wins, wife divorces you and takes you to the cleaners for having your ex beat her up, and then you remember why the ex is the ex and you end up alone.  If your wife is willing to fight you are the luckiest man on the planet and I hate you!!!  Find somebody else for her to fight without all the extra-curricular emotional entanglements.  You'll both be much happier in the long run I think.

I think you might be very right here. The worst case scenario has been looming in my mind. I dont think I could live with it if Danina really hurt my love badly, which the more I think about it, is a probability. Danina is a little psycho and Im not sure I would be around to step in....she might just decide to show up and start shit for the hell of it.

[TheWatchman504]

If they both want to fight each each other and you decide to not let it happen. You will be living with a big "I wonder what would have happen" for the rest of your life long after that once in a lifetime oppurtunity has passed.

[fighttime67]

Danina called my house last night and talked to my wife. She said she looked forward to beating her ass...I think my wife is scared

[David/Tanya]

Not a good idea. Don't do this. My wife and my Ex tried to make it but I didn't allow them. A real fight between them can lead to serious consequences.

[fighttime67]

I guess it all depends on how bad your wife wants to fight her. Having been in that situation with my bf I can tell you that he has made it to my s#*T list by telling me I couldn't fight some chick who was showing me up. A real fight isn't sexy and women either go with a dom/sub kind of fight with one just taking it bc she really doesn't want to fight or they are ready rip each other apart. Don't count wife out against this other girl because she looks all big and bad I got my worst beating form a chick half my size.

The problem is Danina is as tough as she looks and Im worried she might really beat my wifes ass badly. I wouldnt forgive myself if she was hurt. I know she will fight for me if she has to, but Danina might be too much for her