[Corbin2012]

Just the fact that my wife is willing to put her womanhood on the line against another wife is the most exciting aspect to me. I could really care less if she wins or looses. Naturally, like any other husband, if she was in danger of serious injury, I would stop the battle. But, either way, I get turned on just the same. The only thing I don't care to see in a wife fight is punching, or blood.

I'd like to suggest that wife on wife catfighting be included in the marriage vows. A wife should be obligated to fight another wife for the pleasure of their husbands on a regular basis. To love, honor, obey and to cat-fight.

as usual, i go along with your statement. Unfortunately I m with my current gf not that long. thing is i guess it is right to explore the "normal" sexlife first before i start my approaches step by step with my fetish regarding the catfight stuff

Corbin, try gently getting her to unveil her sexual fantasies to you. After you both have discussed them, she will more than likely wish to know yours. Try not to be too over-anxious at first. Break her in easy. Chances are, if she sees, first hand, how much the subject excites you, it just may excite her too.   

yeap, that is is a good suggestion. Had this already on my mind in a way. i dont wanna get caught roughly by her detecting hidden material or me browsing here (among other sites) in case of living together, thats for sure. letting her disclose her arousing fanatsies first hand is a valueable point.

[JimmyD61]

I completely agree with CF Supporter and Anne........a few words can sure go a long way without actually fighting.

[Corbin2012]

I showed my husband this post. He enjoyed reading the responses. While he does not want to see me get hurt or even get into a real street catfight, his biggest turn-on is having me go up against another wife in an arranged wrestling match or catfight with rules.  He says that the buildup even weeks before it happens "keeps him riled up"--his words.  And I always add to that by telling him what I am thinking about my upcoming opponent and what I plan on doing to her, etc.
We also commonly play this game where we will see another attractive female out in public and either he or I will nudge the other and say something to get a fantasy conversation started. He may say something like "See that gal over there Crissy?  She made a pass at me last week." Or I may get it started by saying "I wonder if that bitch wants to step into the lady's room with me."  Things like that. He loves it and I love doing that to him.   One can keep the sparks flying by merely having fun by making up scenarios and going with it.  It works well for us!  Keep life fun!

I truly like this scenario of letting the catfight fantasies and the competiton between two women in generell delve into daily life such as workplace or when enyoing outdoor activities

[hunter85]

from where you guys find such kind of wives?

[thirstybeermonster]

Great topic Maureen. For me there is just a strong primal arousal seeing two women getting catty and having a physical confrontation. Of course when it's my woman, due to the emotions and feelings I have for her, that primal arousal only escalates exponentially. It's the psychological aspect of having my woman fight another woman in front myself and the other's man to find out who's more woman. I don't think I can compare that rush of competition and anticipation to see who the better woman is. Watching my girl strain and flex and battle, getting physical and showing her strength is simply an amazing turn on. Lucky for me, I have a woman who does arranged catfights irl.

[combo2013]

We also commonly play this game where we will see another attractive female out in public and I may get it started by saying "I wonder if that bitch wants to step into the lady's room with me."  Things like that. He loves it and I love doing that to him.   One can keep the sparks flying by merely having fun by making up scenarios and going with it.  It works well for us!  Keep life fun!

My wife does this for me. It certainly works for us without anyone getting hurt.

[LUCKYODAY9]

from where you guys find such kind of wives?

They are out there Hunter. You'd be surprised how many mature women are willing to do or say anything to get the biggest boner their man can achieve. As a matter of fact, the more mature the wife, the more desperate she is to keep her husband interested in her. After long marriages, a good number of men will start to wander if the wife doesn't hold his attention. After 30+ years of marriage myself, I can't tell you how thrilling it is for me to hear my wife ask me who I'd like to see her catfight over my cock. When she's not fighting , or passing catty remarks to other wives, she knows how much I love a nasty catfight story whispered in my ear while I'm banging away at her hot pussy. To me, it's the missing ingredient that keeps me cumming home to her.

[wifefight46]

My wife knows how it gets me off but just sounds annoyed when I ask her to do it.  I wish I could have Maureen maul some sense into her.

[mauler maureen]

My wife knows how it gets me off but just sounds annoyed when I ask her to do it.  I wish I could have Maureen maul some sense into her.

That can be arranged.

[ingritstepanek]

wives fight is more deviant and that is why more exciting

[wifefight46]

My wife knows how it gets me off but just sounds annoyed when I ask her to do it.  I wish I could have Maureen maul some sense into her.

That can be arranged.

You're the best Maureen. It just happened again an hour ago.  I just wanted a few words.  Your husband's name should be LuckyLuckyLucky!!!Oday.

[lumberjack66]

I have done a lot of thinking (including years of counseling) on this subject.  First it is entirely natural seeing members of the opposite sex fight is a turn on and is for a huge part of the population, both male and female.  Plenty of women get aroused seeing men fight whether in a bar or a boxing right.  Why wouldn't/shouldn't it work the other way?  For most of us men, this has been a nearly life long fantasy.  Of course it is natural that one of the women we are fantasizing about would be our wife.  Would our wives prefer we fantasize about other women?  Now that doesn't mean we want to see them hurt.  I have actually stopped my wife from fighting because I don't want her hurt or embarrassed.  But a rules match in private? That would be another thing. 

What I think is an equally interesting question is why so many women refuse to have anything to do with it?  They tell us they love us and want to turn us on.  We tell them our number one lifelong fantasy and they will have nothing to do with it.  They won't try it.  They won't experiment with it.  They won't talk about it.  Nothing.  It would be different if I were in the minority on that, but I would guess the vast majority of women refuse to have anything to do with it.  Probably 80% of the women we love will have nothing to do with it, 18% will talk about it or take advantage of it in some way.  Maybe 2% actually do it?  Reversing the rolls is there anything comparable our wives might tell us was a turn on that 80% of us would say absolutely not too?  We all have thresholds.  But a friendly wrestling match with another person?  A boxing match?  Leaning over and whispering in her ear "I would totally kick his ass."  I think most of us would go a hell of a lot further than that to drive our women wild.

[thirstybeermonster]

Interesting take Lumberjack. While some say it's the type of woman I think it also has to do with how much she is into her guy, even if married. I'm not saying this to be boastful but I've never had trouble with women in my life and have had exes who have done rules catfights for me that I honestly don't think most other guys would have been able to have them agree.

I say this from experience and having been told several times "I'd do things for you I wouldn't have dreamed of for other guys". This goes beyond catfights. I would suggest most guys need to work on their seduction skills and I don't mean pick-up, I mean truly seducing your woman to make her feel like she is the only and most beautiful woman in the world in your eyes. If you've made her feel like no other man has it's almost certain she will do just about anything to please you.

~Scott

[JimmyD61]

I think a lot of it has to do with opening up to the wife or gf about those fantasies.  I don't believe a lot of men do, out of fear.  I would find it hard to be with a woman who wasn't open to my catfight fantasies, whether she actually fought for me or not.  I enjoy sharing that with a woman and want her to enjoy it.  Also makes me open to whatever she might be into because I want her to feel the same way I do.

[wifefight46]

Thank you Anne

It took me years of asking just to get an idea of what her secret fantasies are.  Once I had an idea I had her browse fetish lists on clips sites and found some things that made her squirm.  I would do anything to get her where she needs to be and I have been gently nudging her toward my desires.  Knowing that it worked for you gives me hope.  I will keep trying.