I can not fight and I was not brought up to solve my problems in a physical way. I was the only child in family, and I grew up with my mom (my mom and dad got divorced when I was very little). Most of my cousins are girls,so I had a very feminine childhood without any physical confrontation. In addition I went to private schools where none of my girlfriends had had a fight, and during all my time in private schools I never saw or knew about girls fights. But in the town that I lived there was no private highschool, so I went to a public one and there I found out that there were many girls fights especially working class girls against rich girls or also of their same social status. During my time in highschool a couple of girls wanted to fight me but I chickened out just like my friends did. When I got to college I had two spontaneous fights and those girls that gave me two solid beatdowns came from working class and had experience in fighting. In reality, I just dont have it, I do not have the aggressiveness or the intention to fight or to swing back, besides I don´t have a fighting attitude to fight I am like some girls who will just sit there and take it
