[sinclairfan]

No, cfight, have never come to "bumps" as you put it, but have definitely eyed and sized up other women all of the time. Always her vs me!   

The adrenaline rush from making such comparisons is more than a little bit addictive.  I'll confess to having made hard eye contact from time to time, just to see how she reacts, and if  she happens to carry herself in a very self confident way, I have been strongly tempted to take it a little farther than that on occasion.  Have you?

Ironically, refusing to return eye contact can be equally as provocative as returning it.  The former can come across as arrogance.

[Allie22]

I think the gym is a good place too!