[Thommy1982]

Today i was Sun bathing at a very small beach in spain. Not very crowded mostly oder peolple but on each endlich of the beach have been to very similar built and beautiful women with their boyfriends. And in my mind i imagined what would happen if their eyes meet each other. Would they feel challangend would they rival each other and put on a Show for the other. Would they position themself so That the other has a good look on the Body of the other? And what would happen when the other peoples are leaving so that online the two couples are left at the beach?? Did something like that happen to you?

[tfsaraGG]

Yup. Constantly since I basically live on the beach

[Thommy1982]

Have you ever had a fight cause of the comparision at the beach

[Allie22]

Compared my Mom like this.

[JanaFights]

Always!
I always do compare, and especially when there is someone similarly buildt or looking.
I LOVE Comparing.
My girlfriend loves that as well... She is often the one who puts up the challenges.
Me vs -  the girl she wants to see me up against.

[3wings]

I do it all the time at the beach or even in public like restaurants, malls.  My husband likes it and notices me doing it and makes comments like "boy, she looks like she could kick some butt." And I say something back like, "Oh, we would see. Perhaps I should start something with her and see." Stuff like that.  It keeps the juices going.  We both love playing these games.  But, yes, at a beach, it is really fun.

Wow, you & your husband are really enjoying life.

That's very lucky that competitive woman met competitive guy and they got married    

Your comment makes me hot  
Very interesting~    

[Jenny]

I think that the vast majority of women in this forum have compared themselves to other women in terms of asking themselves "could I take her?".  I know I have, and in a few instances I've felt that the other woman was sizing me up the same way.  I came very close to actually challenging a few women at different times.  A woman who has a lot of pride in herself, a self confident way of walking, holding her head high really gets my adrenaline going, and makes me want at her.  I'd love to hear from other women who've done this or had similar experiences.  I size up other women like this almost constantly when I'm out in public places.

[Jenny]

Not only at the beach, comparison is a female obsession, every opportunity is always the right one ...

Giulia I'm curious.  How often do you compare yourself to other women in the context of wanting to fight her, or whether or not you could take her in a fight?

[Sherri - Jäger Monster]

That is jusy second nature for me. 

[Wrestlerjunkee]

That is jusy second nature for me. 

Somehow that does not surprise me.

[Boche]

Not only at the beach, comparison is a female obsession, every opportunity is always the right one ...

Thank you very much for your input Giulia

[3wings]

Body comparison would take place in souna or locker room or pool&beach


One day I heard beautiful woman with sexy body say "women's motive of going to swimming pool in summer"

She said

"Women don't go to pool in summer to show their bikini bodies to men;
Women go to pool in summer to show their bikini bodies to women.

Women in pool want to show off their superior bodies, that means 'I have better body than you'

When women in friend relationship go to sauna, they are trying to look to her friend's body outrightly up and down.

I bought a pretty bikini 'for visiting pool with friends in this summer' ,and I take exercise regularly in gym for this purpose."


Of course I think women in pool have motive of showing off their bikini bodies to 'Men',
but she is trying to emphasize that motive of women rivalry is bigger than motive of enticing men, at least in her friends' group.

[cfight]

Just wondering. Has this ever happened when you are in a clothing store going through the racks and seeing another woman, who happens to match up pretty well with you, and either you or both of you eye each other up and down? Then maybe as the 2 of you pass each other, maybe a little bump?

[Jenny]

No, cfight, have never come to "bumps" as you put it, but have definitely eyed and sized up other women all of the time. Always her vs me!   

The adrenaline rush from making such comparisons is more than a little bit addictive.  I'll confess to having made hard eye contact from time to time, just to see how she reacts, and if  she happens to carry herself in a very self confident way, I have been strongly tempted to take it a little farther than that on occasion.  Have you?

[Sandman13]

I have a female friend who likes to play a game something like that - I say "What about her?" meaning does my friend think she could take her in a fight. Most times she says stuff like "Oh, yeah. No problem!" or 'She'd be easy!". Once in a while she'll hesitate and say, "Well, maybe if we wrestled. I don't know about boxing. She looks like a badass!" or something similar. God, I love playing that game!