[jess6]

Hi all. It has been several years since I posted here, if you wanted to you could have a look back at those earlier posts of my previous fights.  It struck me recently that I have a significant birthday coming up (30!!) and I still get the same adrenalin fuelled almost indescribable thrill every time I get into a fight, and especially during the build up to one of my fights. And, at 30, I am still seeking out fights just as I did at 18.

I graduated some years ago from Leeds Univeristy in the north of the U.K.  After entering as a graduate I still work for a major accounting firm in Leeds and am now an international business consultant, a high powered job which takes me round the world.  I am still with Steve, the bf from Uni (who I took off his ex in an arranged fight). We are getting married next year

I have tried to count up and write down all my fights.  I think there have been about 25 since I was 18.  So it's up to you, what do you want to know?

They fall into groups

At school, with my first being at 18 with a girl from a rival school

At university, including taking Steve off his ex

Traveling before and at uni, including two fights for money

Fights linked to my work, including the last one 4 weeks ago in America with the gf of a client

Family fights, including with Steve's mum and sister!

I want to get it all out there or just answer questions, about the challenges to fight, the build up, the actual fights or just about how it makes me feel

You choose


Jess xx

[manchester101]

Hey Jess, I think it's cool you would like to share your experiences,
What was it like studying at uni while looking for other women to fight?? Were
you looking to fight at uni?? I never went to UNI, but I can only imagine it's full of women
trying to get ahead....... Lol or getting drunk and partying..... 😀

[jess6]

Hi Manchester. It was easy at uni to provoke fights, there was a lot of drink and a lot of bitchiness.  It was especially easy at parties.  Find the right person, make some comments then watch them react then suggest going outside to sort it.  There was also a girl who lived on my floor in Hal's, and one I went to lectures with.  The one in the halls we ended up agreeing to fight on a tennis court behind the halls in Headingly.  Each brought a friend to watch.  The one in lectures took place in a delivery area behind the lecture building with a crowd watching including the tutor!

[manchester101]

Hi Manchester. It was easy at uni to provoke fights, there was a lot of drink and a lot of bitchiness.  It was especially easy at parties.  Find the right person, make some comments then watch them react then suggest going outside to sort it.  There was also a girl who lived on my floor in Hal's, and one I went to lectures with.  The one in the halls we ended up agreeing to fight on a tennis court behind the halls in Headingly.  Each brought a friend to watch.  The one in lectures took place in a delivery area behind the lecture building with a crowd watching including the tutor!

A tutor not breaking up a fight, that's got to be a first😀....... Give he/she a medal!
Bringing a friend to the fight, was it a case to have someone witness what happened?
Or back up if there was any foul play? ....... Or just jump in if it got out of hand???

[jess6]

It was mainly just cos we wanted witnesses, not for them top get involved, although they came close to fighting each other!   Me and the other girl had fallen out at the start of the year.  Eventually we decided to sort it out with a fight.  We agreed to meet down on the tennis courts which were away from the buildings.  Me and my friend got there first then they arrived.  WE both got properly ready first before fighting.  We fought on half the court. One side of the et.  Was a grass court and a hot June afternoon.

[manchester101]

It was mainly just cos we wanted witnesses, not for them top get involved, although they came close to fighting each other!   Me and the other girl had fallen out at the start of the year.  Eventually we decided to sort it out with a fight.  We agreed to meet down on the tennis courts which were away from the buildings.  Me and my friend got there first then they arrived.  WE both got properly ready first before fighting.  We fought on half the court. One side of the et.  Was a grass court and a hot June afternoon.

Numerous girls I have spoken on here say that  when there watching a girl fight, it makes them want to fight.
It contagious 😀 it's like when U.S. Blokes watch boxing match, and the end of it we think we Muhammad Ali....
RIP.
Sound like one hot June afternoon Jess. What was the outcome in the end...... Differences settle, grudges relinquished? 

[al2468]

Hi Jess- Glad you are back to tell us about your fights.  Would like to hear about the fights for money. I am assuming that they were arranged and agreed upon by you and your opponent.  Where were they held? what was the attire and rules? how many spectators? etc. Thanks

[Gary53]

Thank you so much for wanting to share your experiences. I would love to hear about the family fights. I think those fights would be the most interesting.

[DJP60]

Thx Jess for your experiences. my wife also fought college and after. I am sry u dont work for CAT in Leeds, Caterpillar Tractor.

[colt 45]

More Mature stuff please

[jess6]

Just typed loads about my first fight for money and lost it. Agghhhhh!  Ask me any questions

[JT Edson]

Jess6,

I would love to hear about your college fights, especially about the one over your future husband. How did you and Steve meet? Was he already with the other girl when you two met? What was she like? Where and when did you and the other girl (her name?) fight? I have a ton of questions. I almost had a couple of girls fight over me a couple of times in college, but I stopped it.

[jess6]

JTE go back to my history of posts here. I posted the full story of my fight to win Steve back in January 2010!! It was easily the most important, best, hardest fight of my life. Ask me any other questions after reading it xx

[jess6]

Ok. My fight for money. Posted in smaller sections!

My first one happened when I was 19. I took a year off between college and university to travel. My generous parents and lots of saving allowed me to do it. I never said but I'm (and was then)  5 7, 140, slim, short blonde hair. I visited Thailand etc then arrived in Australia for Christmas. I spent Christmas in Sydney. I loved it so much I decided to stay a while and got a job in a cocktail bar in the Rocks and a flat share

[jess6]

The bar was very posh, attracting rich and good looking coupes and singles including of course older guys. There was a fair amount of flirting going on, encouraged by Michelle the older woman who ran the bar

We had a lot of fun working there. I got on with almost all the staff, except one girl, older than me, maybe 26, 5 9, 130, slim, willowy, long dark hair. Michelle made sure all the staff were attractive. We had to wear really short cocktail dresses to work.