I'm not a husband, but I accompany my girlfriend to her arranged matches and act as her second. While she has a firm rule about bottoms not being removed, there is absolutely no mistaking the twinge I feel in the pit of my stomach whenever her top is torn in the action. As her boyfriend for going on 3 years now, I've seen her topless and even naked so many times I've stopped counting, but it never gets old especially in that setting when she is competing physically with another woman. That feeling is a big part of the attraction; why us guys are so drawn to this. Nothing like it.