I use stakes in mine, I developed along with a few women i have known that enjoy Breast Fights as much, we use necklaces with hanging teirs, now a real necklace of this type (picture in my profile) can cost major money, so to avoid anyone having to spend a ton on something they may lose we found sights that have exacrt replicas of the good stuff for 10 -20 dollars a necklace, so my basic breastfight stakes are as follows, Winner takes losers Bra, Necklace, in accordance with that we may add a face smother under breast, loser worships winners breast, or the ACT of milking the losers breasts, (this means you DO NOT have to be lactating) but rest assured after a long breast battle then to endure the winner manhandling your breasts is VERY painful.
We have also done hairfights and loser gets about an inch or so cut by winner, some other stakes that have been used , were Money though not iften as it can get costly and also tempers flair a bit more.
Facesit
Smother
breast worship
deep kneading (milking)
prolong holds
Bras (and wearing losers and pose for her as she lays prone)
neckalces
I have been asked but being a jealous wife rarely agree but our men sexually to winner
the thing with "arranged/rule" matches you have to be open to your oppoenents ideas, wants ,desires as much as you want them to accept yours so if you aren't willing to give in a bit you won't get as many offers to engage in, a one sided oppoennet or head strong one gets a bad rep and that leads to less contact if you use referrals over the web