[ThroatStuffer]

I'm a huge fan of catfighing and my girlfriend knows it, and she's pretty ok with it.  She's never expressed any interest in trying it though and I don't know how to bring it up.  She's pretty small (5'3 105 34C 24 36) so I wouldn't want her to get hurt but she's fairly athletic and I think she might enjoy it.  Any idea how to get her to try it?

[djcrash]

There are a number of ways that i can think of one of which is does your girlfriend have a friend or relative that she could wrestle against for fun? You could try to make her jealous enough to fight another woman. Depending on how much money you have you can hire some one to wrestle her. Provided that she is willing there used to be some wrestling schools around. Is there a club in your area that features ladies wrestling? They might have an amateur night.

[ThroatStuffer]

I wouldn't really want her to do it out of anger or jealousy, but a friend is a good idea.  I'll look into that.  I've always wondered how people start this kind of thing

[MaskedBunny]

You should google 'Combative Womens Wrestling' or something and see if you can find an archive of Barb's site.  Barb was a wrestler for DWW and had a site all about wrestling/catfighting that was amazing.  In addition to the rules and everything, it talked about how to get your girlfriend to try it.  Sadly, the site isn't around itself anymore, though I do know that a person archived it on google out of respect for Barb.  If you can't find it, let me know and I could find it for you.  But I'd recommend that.

[Britty]

I'm a huge fan of catfighing and my girlfriend knows it, and she's pretty ok with it.  She's never expressed any interest in trying it though and I don't know how to bring it up.  She's pretty small (5'3 105 34C 24 36) so I wouldn't want her to get hurt but she's fairly athletic and I think she might enjoy it.  Any idea how to get her to try it?

Better still try it out yourself first, get beat up with your girlfriend watching and see how it feels then go  into work the following day and see how you feel

Britty

[ThroatStuffer]

Haha I have, I do plenty of martial arts

[djcrash]

I wonder does Britty know how to eat crow or did she just get served her first meal of it?

[CATZREVIEW]

Just put one your favourite Catfighting DVDs on, ask if she'll watch it with you, and then afterwards ask her if she fancies having a go in a light-hearted way.  You should be able to tell by her reaction what she really thinks about the prospect of having a good SCRAP.

Hope that's of some help?

Gianni

[jonny22]

HAHAHAHAHAHA i like it Emma, made me giggle

[femfitefan]

My advice... get her to watch a few fem wrestling or catfight videos with you.  And don't be shy about letting her see how much it turns you on.  That should get her thinking about it.  You might even pick out one of the girls in the video and ask her if she thinks she could take her.  Something like that.  Anything to get her comfortable with the idea of women wrestling and thinking about what it would be like for her to do it.  After a while, if she doesn't bring it up herself, you can ask her if she has any interest in trying.  Don't pressure her though.

I like the idea that someone else mentioned of getting a friend to try it with her for fun.  That could be a good way to get her started once she agrees to give it a try.

Let us know how it works out for you.  Good luck!

[Britty]

Hi,

Ok to all the above but just be open to the fact that she might just not be into it.  If thats the case you have two choices, either love her for what she is or finish.  You cant make someone into something they are not so its just not worth trying.

And always bear in mind that some fighting will, does and has caused injuries, permanent ones at that. Ive chatted to a few females who have done it for their husbands/partners and have lived to regret it.

Maybe I am too old I dont know, but i did think loving someone was wanting them to have what it is they want? Loving someone is to cherish their bodies and not want any harm to come of them, loving is putting them first above those of our own needs.  All of that I guess makes me sound like a prude, but rest assured I have had exciting times during my life with sex both for my partner and I.

Much as this fettish can cause sexual excitement in cyber, that, for me is as far as it will ever go, a fettish and one restricted to cyberland only.  I love my body old as it is, I value it, its way too precious for me to abuse it - having said that *sighs, i guess i do abuse it by smoking *sighs, but there again thats my choice not the choice of another trying to lead me into it.

Sorry about bringing reality into this, but considering irl fighting, reality does need to have a place sorry.

Britty

[MaskedBunny]

First off:  Barb, that fantastic woman who created The Combative Woman's Wrestling site (former URL:  http://www.womansplace.net/xxxxxxxs/) was not -- correct me if I'm wrong -- involved with wrestling for DWW.

Barb did engage in many competitive wrestling events with many of her friends or acquainted women but to my knowledge did not participate in DWW.

As far as her site goes, yeah, there are (fortunately) archives of it and, e.g., if interested, go here.

Like I told vanessa-25, you can also check into Ladies Voice Verified on Y!

In addition to what Britty said about why your relationship comes first, if, after all you've said and done, she still says,  " No, "  then understand that  " No "  means  " NO ! "  and just leave it at that.

Otherwise, ... there are a ton of good reasons to try and introduce her to legitimate fem-vs-fem activities and the above references might help.

Then I apologize for the misinformation.  The reason I believed that Barb was, is because when the site was listed on DWW's site it listed it as 'A site from our very own Barb.'  Or something similar.  None the less, it's still an amazing site with a lot of information on it.