While adult ads do work after much research finding another woman that wants exactly the style match and rules you do, sadly more than not you might find 1 in a 100, I used adult ads in past but like the web you have no idea what’s waiting for you no matter what’s advertised or told to you, I.e. posers or jobbers or wackos, after many years I learned through another female fighter that referrals are the best way to build a never ending contact list, it’s so simple it’s silly not more do it, if you know at least 1 other fighter and she knows at least 1 other then she passes your info on to that next fighter and you do the same for her, you meet and then repeat the same procedure, it works great, it’s super safe, and best of all your and their reputation gets you contacts, so if you or anyone is deemed a rule breaker or bad attitude what have you, your name won’t be passed on hence the emails stop coming for a match, if you fight hard by the numbers and are a good sport win or lose your emails will be exploding with others wanting the same.
