[Brit_brat]

Hi All,

Ok I am asking for something hard here but its an easier media than most to allow this to come out.

I believe most people at this site want PARTICIPATION as opposed to SPECTATING

I dont actually think the men at the site get a whole lot out of sitting in front of a computer and reading about two women fighting even if it is live.

Public fights do sometimes happen in the chat room and I would like and appreciate thoughts about "what do you get out of them"

How would the men at this site like to PARTICIPATE, what role would they like to play?

Moving on from that, although its my hated topic and something im opposed to in the extreme, where a guy has watc hed a real life fight between two women, what was his role afterwards?  At least lets see if there is something positive in the outcome:D

Brit

[atomicplayboy3000]

love to videotape it for the participants

[mikex]

i like being on the pc reading ab
out catfights thank you

[djcrash]

As a teenager i saw my first real catfight, the fight was between two older women(19&20). It was quick and brutal about 15 seconds in total ending with younger blonde holding her older sister inlaw by the boobs and making her beg for mercy. From that point on i have enjoyed watching women fight each other, i do enjoy watching it the most live. As for films, tapes, dvds, and the web, i have found that the staging, acting and shooting to usually be substandard. In some cases the actresses are falling or moving with out being pushed, slapped, kicked or punched. It is interesting how unique gravity is in some of the places that the movies are made. The best part of catfight movies is that most of the women look good, are dressed well, and eager to fight each other. 

[Brit_brat]

OK hi all

We have moved slightly from what was my original intended question as I am not too good at making myself clear.

What I would like to know is "what do men get out of watching two women fight in the Chat Room (cyber)"  Have any of the readers got any comments regarding this?  and moving on from this What is a man's role if he has watched an irl fight after the fight - especially if its been arranged.

The reasons I ask the above two questions is

1. Is there any benefit in staging cyber cat fights in the main room
2. Whether there is any way these fights could be improved
3. Whether there is anything positive for the female in an irl fight

Thanks to you who have already commented and further comments to be above greatly appreciated

Brit

[Brit_brat]

What I would like to know is "what do men get out of watching two women fight in the Chat Room (cyber)" 

Speaking only for myself, I don't get anything from Cyber-fighting. The key elements that excite many men about FvsF are missing from the Cyber-fight experience.  I can't see what the women look like and a verbal catfight is just more or less an irritating build-up/tease to the "real thing".  Since a cyber-fight by definition can never happen IRL, it doesn't do anything for me.  I'd much rather locate some great FvsF content or narrow down which producer might have offerings that I'd like.

That being said I'd be surprised if there aren't some guys that really get turned on by the whole cyber-fight thing...of course wading through the idiots pestering the "women" to meet up and fight IRL might become tedious.  Since this isn't my thing I'm sure my take on this is probably less than relevant but I can't imagine what role a male poster might play in a cyber-fight other than to add encouragement to his favorite...and keep his mouth shut or at least very respectful with regards to her orival. ;-)
SA
[/quote]Interesting comments. I have a very strong suspicion that NO ONE gets "turned on" by a cyber fight in the male department, of course they pay respect and add lip service and pretend they enjoy it.  I think generally speaking the men like to participate in cyber activity as opposed to watching a "cyber fight"

What is a "male poster"?  Ive never heard this term before

I cant say that ive ever been "pestered" personally to meet up and participate IRL, I think by now most guys know me and have more wisdom than to even attempt such an activity.

I can assure you Sketch that in most of my cyber fights, a man has played a very relevant role. Generally I dont do a cyber fight unless there is a man around that I would wish to have fun with afterwards.  Unless this fun is one sided on my part that is also the part that the male enjoys most.

I can say I think cyber has a very relevant role in todays society.  I am not really referring to fcf here, but if someone wanted to meet someone for an in real life relationship I cant think of a better way of doing it than through this media.  For this communicating via a web cam is essential in order than you know the person you are relating to.  Having a cyber relationship in the first instance can get rid of a ton of inhibitions, make you more knowledgeable about the persons likes/dislikes and prepare the way for something very meaningful. 

I shall finalise by saying that where I have got to "know" some men at fcf, there are very few that would want real life fighting... in fact Ive not met one.  In one instance a gentleman shared that his previous wife was prepared to fight for him irl, when it came down to it he could not see it through so it never happened. I found that quite interesting.

Brit

[TheWatchman504]

I get absolutely nothing out of cyber fights unless I know for sure the women are real and have really agreed to  fight irl after the cyber fight, If the women don't plan to meet up and fight irl I wont even bother watching a cyber fight,as for what role would I like to play in an Irl fight,  my honest answer is I would like to be one of the guys video taping the fight and making sure no one interferes and when its over I would try to get the girls to want to fight each other again. This probably sounds bad and its not a good attitude  to  some but I don't care that's how much I enjoy cat fights.

[ROYALS22262]

As a man, I get absolutely nothing out of cyber fighting to be honest.  It is very boring to me.  I don't enjoy violent real fights between women at all either.  I do enjoy sensual real fighting or wrestling between two females.  I don't want to see punching or clawing where a woman gets hurt.  I do love to see breast smothering, face sitting, butt smothering and foot smothering in a female match.  These are more moves of domination and humiliation, which is what I LOVE!  I don't like violence, blood, broken anything, except maybe for a broken spirit or broken ego!  It is sexual for me, with competition mixed in.  I love to see one woman dominate another with her sexy body.  Smothering gets me very excited, one woman forcing another to smell her sexiness!  I love to sit and watch those type of encounters.  I love to talk about it with the women after, only if they want to.  My role after is anything the women want it to be.  Get them something, talk, comfort, what ever is required, needed or asked for.  I like to be helpful and supportive after, particularly because of what they just went through and endurred for the pleasure of those watching, like me.  I hope that answers your very thoughtful questions.

[JackCatFan]

What do I want out of public cyber fights in the room?

I want them to take it to a private room, mostly, and stop cluttering-up my screen with badly written and implausible nonsense.

Whilst I can understand the appeal of cyber fights - and from some of the transcripts I've read I know they can be done well - most of the public fights I've seen are riddled with poor description and impossible moves that do not flow on naturally from what the other poster has put down previously.  The whole gets very irritating very quickly and I often leave a chatroom when I see a public 'fight' is imminent.

I understand that we all have our own opinions. We all use the forum and the chatroom in our own way and interact with other users differently. There's really no correct answer, as it's entirely subjective. I know that some of my friends on here like to see - if that's the word - these kind of fights but I have to say, they're really not for me.

[Brit_brat]

Yeppers,

Thanks for all the comments, trouble is none of you guys seem to like cyber full stop so I am not getting an overall picture.  Everyone that has posted here, in my opinion keeps a million miles away from any sort of cyber.

I guess thats the nature of this board, its almost like a different chat room.

It would have been nice to have received comments from guys and girls that actually participate in cyber.
I now quote
"What do I want out of public cyber fights in the room?

I want them to take it to a private room, mostly, and stop cluttering-up my screen with badly written and implausible nonsense.

Whilst I can understand the appeal of cyber fights - and from some of the transcripts I've read I know they can be done well - most of the public fights I've seen are riddled with poor description and impossible moves that do not flow on naturally from what the other poster has put down previously.  The whole gets very irritating very quickly and I often leave a chatroom when I see a public 'fight' is imminent.

I understand that we all have our own opinions. We all use the forum and the chatroom in our own way and interact with other users differently. There's really no correct answer, as it's entirely subjective. I know that some of my friends on here like to see - if that's the word - these kind of fights but I have to say, they're really not for me"

Could you share jackcatfightfan what it is you would like to see on the boards?  That would be really helpful and constructive?

I asked this question for a reason,  and that reason is to be promoting subject topics in the chat room that do generate interest and participation.  At times the chatroom can be silent, other than things going on in private of course.  A chatroom by its very nature is all about chatting not silence and there is nothing attractive about a new person visiting a room and seeing total silence.   Lets have some constructive comments please

Brit

[JackCatFan]

Brit,

I don't think what I said was in any way unconstructive. It was just my opinion about public fights, which was the question you asked.

I did say that I understand that cyber can be entertaining when done well. It just isn't done very well by most of those who have 'fights' in the room. I get that other people, however, might like to see these fights.

I also noted that everyone who comes here uses the board in a different way and interacts with other users differently too. My opinion is no more 'right' than anyone else's. It's just that: my opinion.

I'm perfectly happy with the board and the chatroom the way they are. It all ticks over very nicely - on the whole. If there's something on the board I'm not interested in, I don't read it.

The problems seem to occur most often when people try and force everyone to subscribe to what their particular version of the forum is.

Why can't we all just accept that everyone's approach to the forum and the chatroom will be different and let them get on with it in their own way?




Yeppers,

Thanks for all the comments, trouble is none of you guys seem to like cyber full stop so I am not getting an overall picture.  Everyone that has posted here, in my opinion keeps a million miles away from any sort of cyber.

I guess thats the nature of this board, its almost like a different chat room.

It would have been nice to have received comments from guys and girls that actually participate in cyber.
I now quote
"What do I want out of public cyber fights in the room?

I want them to take it to a private room, mostly, and stop cluttering-up my screen with badly written and implausible nonsense.

Whilst I can understand the appeal of cyber fights - and from some of the transcripts I've read I know they can be done well - most of the public fights I've seen are riddled with poor description and impossible moves that do not flow on naturally from what the other poster has put down previously.  The whole gets very irritating very quickly and I often leave a chatroom when I see a public 'fight' is imminent.

I understand that we all have our own opinions. We all use the forum and the chatroom in our own way and interact with other users differently. There's really no correct answer, as it's entirely subjective. I know that some of my friends on here like to see - if that's the word - these kind of fights but I have to say, they're really not for me"

Could you share jackcatfightfan what it is you would like to see on the boards?  That would be really helpful and constructive?

I asked this question for a reason,  and that reason is to be promoting subject topics in the chat room that do generate interest and participation.  At times the chatroom can be silent, other than things going on in private of course.  A chatroom by its very nature is all about chatting not silence and there is nothing attractive about a new person visiting a room and seeing total silence.   Lets have some constructive comments please

Brit




[/quote]

[femalewrestlingchannel]

OK hi all

We have moved slightly from what was my original intended question as I am not too good at making myself clear.

What I would like to know is "what do men get out of watching two women fight in the Chat Room (cyber)"  Have any of the readers got any comments regarding this?  and moving on from this What is a man's role if he has watched an irl fight after the fight - especially if its been arranged.

The reasons I ask the above two questions is

1. Is there any benefit in staging cyber cat fights in the main room
2. Whether there is any way these fights could be improved
3. Whether there is anything positive for the female in an irl fight

Thanks to you who have already commented and further comments to be above greatly appreciated

Brit

Zero, notta, nothing.

That's for me anyhow.

Now, if the advent of video, and all the great technology we have wasn't in place, perhaps my answer would differ.   

[Brit_brat]

Brit,

I don't think what I said was in any way unconstructive. It was just my opinion about public fights, which was the question you asked.

What I meant was constructive in the form of what would you like to see in chat. Whilst I appreciate that cyber is not popular for everyone, those that go into the chat room are looking for something. It would be nice to know what that something was.

[/quote]I did say that I understand that cyber can be entertaining when done well. It just isn't done very well by most of those who have 'fights' in the room. I get that other people, however, might like to see these fights. [/quote]
Everyone has to start somewhere. Not everyone is going to be good straight up. Its a learning curve and we all have to learn

[/quote]I also noted that everyone who comes here uses the board in a different way and interacts with other users differently too. My opinion is no more 'right' than anyone else's. It's just that: my opinion. [/quote]
This question was never aimed at opinions it was looking for facts and I am having a hard time gathering those facts from those that do go into the chat room because I am not convinced that the majority visit these boards

[/quote]Why can't we all just accept that everyone's approach to the forum and the chatroom will be different and let them get on with it in their own way? [/quote]
I dont think that anyone is saying that everyone cant be different, what I am seeking to establish is what do people want to see on the chat board

Well thats my practice at applying sketchartiste's tips on quoting lets see how it looks