The stakes in any arranged match are only limited by the participants limits , lack of imagination , do not dismiss what you read as being to far out, the consequences might be real but the way they are reached may be above and beyond, normally 2 fighters/opponents that have a long lasting hate and real dislike won’t often use or offer a lot of acceptable stakes after a match cause the personal clash is far greater and tempers will flare, but at the same instance in that same situation the winner WILL take joy in smothering or facesit or straddle or even hold a victory pose on her rival as a way to rub losers face in it if you will. As far as what and do I use consequences absolutely, there is no official “champion belt “ or recognition in arranged rule matches so creating a reward/ stake or consequences are a way to have that one thing I and my opponents often agree to is in a breast fight we take losers bra maybe wear it as she watches, we do milking ( do not have to be lactating) it is the motion and act of it hurts like hell after a match, another some I meet we use costume jewelry like in my profile, we can get 1-2 necklaces for 20-30 dollars we pretend they are a symbol of a fighters status more jewels and larger the better you are, if you lose winner takes your necklace, the more common are face sit, smother reverse face sit , prolonged holds, after fight holds to make loser plead , but any and all stakes MUST be agreed on by both before anything starts cause a friendly match can turn unfriendly real fast if something humiliating is done not agreed on, as for personal hated rivalries, same applies with the exception being nothing is set between fighters before hand then as the loser you face winners choice and complain or hate her more or not you lost you either break free or take it till next time if there ever is, and between heated rivals usually is s next time