How did the husband or boyfriend react? Did he try encouraging his girl to take you on or did he actively try and defuse the situation? I of course would never want any one hurt. So of course I’d never let that happen. On several occasions I had an ex gf who loved to playfully wrestle, or even arm wrestle other girls just to turn me on when she became aware I thought it was hot. One reason for this post was after we had broken up she would challenge the girl I was with sometimes being we had the same circle of friends. She wanted to arm wrestle her and did once and won as she did she’d look at me in a way that she knew it turned me on. She used that many times to talk to me about beating her knowing she could turn me on. Sometimes it was just to get me hard wherever we may be and many times coming by my apartment to have a quite intense session as she talked about being better and stronger than my gf. She really wanted to wrestle her in front of me. Once my gf found out of my interest in these confrontations she did her best to avoid my ex gf . She eventually saw what my ex was attempting to do by challenging her. She wasn’t going to allow it to happen again and my ex seem to feed off her fear and pushed even harder knowing it turned me on. My ex even told me once that know my gf was afraid of her turned her on. She felt sexier even. Since she knew it turned me on sexually it was stimulating for her to see my gf , cower and avoid competing even though my gf knew it turned me on.