I was 21 and dancing my fiancé now hubby was away serving our country so hey had to pay the bills, anyway I was asked to work a “ private party” with a older dancer who was bustier than myself, during the “act “ we did she and I bumped and rubbed boobs, afterward before we left to go home she asked if I ever heard of it, I think my look said it all, she explained the process and not long after at her place she and I had a practice duel, I fought her with our boobs about 4 times before I was good enough to beat her, I had the size the firmness and weight lacked the knowledge, soon after I was hitting the gym harder developing my chest muscles and after learning of rule cat, and other match styles I was on my way, while I am still very active I learned the hard way to never use the web to arrange any match I use referrals and it is so much safer and get better quality matches.