[Azaalardons]

Hello I'm new to this forum, I introduced my wife to catfight not so long ago and apart from fun wrestling with her girlfriend we haven't been lucky to find an opponent.We live in New York State.
I was thinking about creating a group on Wickr for serious couples who enjoy catfight and would like to arrange meeting . Wickr is very anonymous and the user have control of their content.. Let me know what you think..

Im still looking for an opponent for a soft nude or lightly dressed wrestling bout against my wife. I am 33 she is 38 NY area.

[lumberjack66]

I have no idea if wicker is a good platform for this or not.  I'd suggest you look into VoiceVerified.  They used to have a yahoo group.  I think now they are more on Fetlife.com  I am sure they have other platforms as well.  I don't know because I am not a member.  Only women can get into the group and it is run by women.  There are a few members here.  I am sure they can point the way.

Good Luck!!!

[femft]

Hello I'm new to this forum, I introduced my wife to catfight not so long ago and apart from fun wrestling with her girlfriend we haven't been lucky to find an opponent.We live in New York State.
I was thinking about creating a group on Wickr for serious couples who enjoy catfight and would like to arrange meeting . Wickr is very anonymous and the user have control of their content.. Let me know what you think..

Im still looking for an opponent for a soft nude or lightly dressed wrestling bout against my wife. I am 33 she is 38 NY area.

try the voice verified group they are real they are on fetlife also let me know I can get you in touch with the groups owners

[sherryfights]

I sent you a PM.
 I am a member of
Voice Verified it is an excellent way to meet and arrange matches with other like minded women. 
You can also find many of VV members on fetlife.

[KenWillWrestle]

Voice Verified is legit, but the vetting process is undesirable. It needs to be updated with current gen protocols. My ex was made to to reapply like twice on yahoo, over some lame formalities. And when she was finally called, they did it out of the blue. Like our personal lives weren't considered. There was no heads up or anything. There is google voice. There is all types of alternate means of voice contact, and VV still wanted a phone number, while having theirs private. And then people within the VV community want to do extra vetting. 1 couple said they only use kik, and I happened to have kik. And then they wanted my ex to get kik. She did, and they still didn't organize through that. So I personally would rather meet a legit couple, male, or female for matching up. Most likely I will have to use VV again, but not a full fan of it. However, it did provide me with my first organized FvF viewing experience. Even though when other matches were sought, it seemed no one was interested. And this was way before Covid.

[CDSouthWrestler]

Voice Verified is legit, but the vetting process is undesirable. It needs to be updated with current gen protocols. My ex was made to to reapply like twice on yahoo, over some lame formalities. And when she was finally called, they did it out of the blue. Like our personal lives weren't considered. There was no heads up or anything. There is google voice. There is all types of alternate means of voice contact, and VV still wanted a phone number, while having theirs private. And then people within the VV community want to do extra vetting. 1 couple said they only use kik, and I happened to have kik. And then they wanted my ex to get kik. She did, and they still didn't organize through that. So I personally would rather meet a legit couple, male, or female for matching up. Most likely I will have to use VV again, but not a full fan of it. However, it did provide me with my first organized FvF viewing experience. Even though when other matches were sought, it seemed no one was interested. And this was way before Covid.

Lets dismantle your objections one by one:

And when she was finally called, they did it out of the blue. Like our personal lives weren't considered
That is done so that people cannot arange to have a sympathetic woman to stand in and provide the necessary voice verification and from chatting to people at AOL I know it happened
VV still wanted a phone number
A simple precaution so that VV can call back and check that the woman listed is still there and still involved in the scene, common sense really
people within the VV community want to do extra vetting
Safety is paramount when you have been involved in this as long as I have and have fought matches against people arranged where you have no way of telling what you are facing in reality because lets face it people lie and bullshit you, then every ounce of extra security is in your favour

The fact is that the system is put there to protect and the comment about with held phone numbers is common sense to prevent harassment at a later stage should things turn out that the applicant is not being honest.

I will tell you a little story that dates back over a decade to when I was a moderator of the WI wrestling group  at Yahoo, one of the guys involved in it got so interested in the leading female wrestler that he took to stalking her amd her husband came very close to shooting the guy, safety is absolute for anyone involved in this and I would hate to see any additional risks introduced into the process that puts anyone in jeopardy.

[KenWillWrestle]

Voice Verified is legit, but the vetting process is undesirable. It needs to be updated with current gen protocols. My ex was made to to reapply like twice on yahoo, over some lame formalities. And when she was finally called, they did it out of the blue. Like our personal lives weren't considered. There was no heads up or anything. There is google voice. There is all types of alternate means of voice contact, and VV still wanted a phone number, while having theirs private. And then people within the VV community want to do extra vetting. 1 couple said they only use kik, and I happened to have kik. And then they wanted my ex to get kik. She did, and they still didn't organize through that. So I personally would rather meet a legit couple, male, or female for matching up. Most likely I will have to use VV again, but not a full fan of it. However, it did provide me with my first organized FvF viewing experience. Even though when other matches were sought, it seemed no one was interested. And this was way before Covid.

Lets dismantle your objections one by one.

You didn't dismantle anything. All you did was input your own thoughts into what I stated. I have dealt with people like you that love to quote on other forums. What will end up happening, is you will report me to the mods, if you haven't already. Ill just block you and avoid a back and forth, which usually happens. I could GAF what you said. But Ill humor you, and read your reply in detail.

[KenWillWrestle]

[/quote]

Lets dismantle your objections one by one:


That is done so that people cannot arange to have a sympathetic woman to stand in and provide the necessary voice verification and from chatting to people at AOL I know it happened

When on the phone, my ex was interviewed and asked specifics. Prior to that, pics and other visual proof was provided. People have jobs at all different times and different family related scenarios. To protect my ex, we used a phone that wasn't hers. It was an extra phone I had. So I couldn't just loan my phone out to my EX. So I stand by my point. Google voice can provide persons with a non connecting phone number. I use google voice all the time so I know.

A simple precaution so that VV can call back and check that the woman listed is still there and still involved in the scene, common sense really

ONCE again, google voice can provide a non connecting number. And there are other means of contact too.

Safety is paramount when you have been involved in this as long as I have and have fought matches against people arranged where you have no way of telling what you are facing in reality because lets face it people lie and bullshit you, then every ounce of extra security is in your favour

Was there some type of difficulty reading? I am thinking there was. If both me and my ex were on KIK, we satisfied the requirements asked. So not sure WTF you are talking about. The couple we did arrange a FvF match with met us on videochat and we were able to see each other and verify for a match. Which happened. So once again, that relates to using various means of contact. We did that with another couple for a possible couples match, but even after video chat, nothing was arranged. As far as safety goes, that shouldn't be hard to establish. Meet in a public place. See the history of the persons competing. I have been a member of fetlife and FCF for nearing 10 years. I have been one of the most open persons with pics and experiences. I will not be lectured in a group comprised or mostly phony profiles. And even though I have attempted to have matches before my EX, I proved what I was about. I am not some faker.

The fact is that the system is put there to protect and the comment about with held phone numbers is common sense to prevent harassment at a later stage should things turn out that the applicant is not being honest.

Legit phone numbers will not prevent harassment. You can get a phone number from many sources. Some people have their phones set to ignore Unknown calls for various reasons. Also phone numbers can be blocked and changed. And if they want to use an UNKNOWN number, then give a call timeframe.

I will tell you a little story that dates back over a decade to when I was a moderator of the WI wrestling group  at Yahoo, one of the guys involved in it got so interested in the leading female wrestler that he took to stalking her amd her husband came very close to shooting the guy, safety is absolute for anyone involved in this and I would hate to see any additional risks introduced into the process that puts anyone in jeopardy.
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I guess you missed the part about updated protocols. And stalking can happen even if the vetting process is fully met. But if I meet a couple at a hotel suite, like we did. How in TF can stalking occur? Do you use your real name? If you invite someone into your house, shouldn't be to a point of trusting them enough? And as far as that story goes. I would love to know the specifics. Cause certain attitudes in the US dictate these situations. I have FUCKED too many women to ever stalk someone's wife. And in the past I have never had to stalk wives that I ended up having sex with. Sure, many of you have some beautiful wives and GFs who wrestle catfight, but much like IRL, I am capable of not lusting or stalking after someone attractive. My Ex is not the most attractive woman, but doesn't mean I wanted someone else's woman.  So unless you are giving out real info, and inviting many persons in your home for matches, stalking can be avoided.

So what did you dismantle?

Also if you get personal in your attacks, don't cry to the mods if I get personal back.

[CDSouthWrestler]

Lets dismantle your objections one by one:


That is done so that people cannot arange to have a sympathetic woman to stand in and provide the necessary voice verification and from chatting to people at AOL I know it happened

When on the phone, my ex was interviewed and asked specifics. Prior to that, pics and other visual proof was provided. People have jobs at all different times and different family related scenarios. To protect my ex, we used a phone that wasn't hers. It was an extra phone I had. So I couldn't just loan my phone out to my EX. So I stand by my point. Google voice can provide persons with a non connecting phone number. I use google voice all the time so I know.

A simple precaution so that VV can call back and check that the woman listed is still there and still involved in the scene, common sense really

ONCE again, google voice can provide a non connecting number. And there are other means of contact too.

Safety is paramount when you have been involved in this as long as I have and have fought matches against people arranged where you have no way of telling what you are facing in reality because lets face it people lie and bullshit you, then every ounce of extra security is in your favour

Was there some type of difficulty reading? I am thinking there was. If both me and my ex were on KIK, we satisfied the requirements asked. So not sure WTF you are talking about. The couple we did arrange a FvF match with met us on videochat and we were able to see each other and verify for a match. Which happened. So once again, that relates to using various means of contact. We did that with another couple for a possible couples match, but even after video chat, nothing was arranged. As far as safety goes, that shouldn't be hard to establish. Meet in a public place. See the history of the persons competing. I have been a member of fetlife and FCF for nearing 10 years. I have been one of the most open persons with pics and experiences. I will not be lectured in a group comprised or mostly phony profiles. And even though I have attempted to have matches before my EX, I proved what I was about. I am not some faker.

The fact is that the system is put there to protect and the comment about with held phone numbers is common sense to prevent harassment at a later stage should things turn out that the applicant is not being honest.

Legit phone numbers will not prevent harassment. You can get a phone number from many sources. Some people have their phones set to ignore Unknown calls for various reasons. Also phone numbers can be blocked and changed. And if they want to use an UNKNOWN number, then give a call timeframe.

I will tell you a little story that dates back over a decade to when I was a moderator of the WI wrestling group  at Yahoo, one of the guys involved in it got so interested in the leading female wrestler that he took to stalking her amd her husband came very close to shooting the guy, safety is absolute for anyone involved in this and I would hate to see any additional risks introduced into the process that puts anyone in jeopardy.
[/quote]

I guess you missed the part about updated protocols. And stalking can happen even if the vetting process is fully met. But if I meet a couple at a hotel suite, like we did. How in TF can stalking occur? Do you use your real name? If you invite someone into your house, shouldn't be to a point of trusting them enough? And as far as that story goes. I would love to know the specifics. Cause certain attitudes in the US dictate these situations. I have FUCKED too many women to ever stalk someone's wife. And in the past I have never had to stalk wives that I ended up having sex with. Sure, many of you have some beautiful wives and GFs who wrestle catfight, but much like IRL, I am capable of not lusting or stalking after someone attractive. My Ex is not the most attractive woman, but doesn't mean I wanted someone else's woman.  So unless you are giving out real info, and inviting many persons in your home for matches, stalking can be avoided.

So what did you dismantle?

Also if you get personal in your attacks, don't cry to the mods if I get personal back.
[/quote]

I never got personal in my comments, the bitching is being done by you by threatening to involve the mods. I pointed out that VV has worked for a large number of people over the years and thus your complaints about it are within a tiny minority, their system was set up by women to verify other women using methods that were commonly available at that time

You and your ex had a choice to use it or not to use VV and you chose to use them, so complainting post fact about how they work is rather silly isn't it?

[KenWillWrestle]

Ok

[SantaBarbaragirl]

Hi ya,
Hi ya,
We are a real couple looking for matches for my wife. I'm more into control, pins and submission wrestling and light erotic and very light cat. Not into damage or injury. That's actually a turn off for us. But we could do an acted out catfight at half speed or something. Some real hitting and stuff but nothing crazy. Again, way more into wrestling. If this is something you might be open to then we would love to talk with you. Most people have different likes so we talk and meet in the middle and make it work as best we can for everyone. So it's a good experience for us all.
Looking forward to hearing back from you as we will be in your area in the near future.
Tink and Barry

[SantaBarbaragirl]

Hi ya,
 We saw your post in FCF. We are a real couple looking for matches for my wife. I'm more into control, pins and submission wrestling and light erotic and very light cat. Not into damage or injury. That's actually a turn off for us. But we could do an acted out catfight at half speed or something. Some real hitting and stuff but nothing crazy. Again, way more into wrestling. If this is something you might be open to then we would love to talk with you. Most people have different likes so we talk and meet in the middle and make it work as best we can for everyone. So it's a good experience for us all.
Looking forward to hearing back from you as we will be in your area in the near future. Please write to us at houstonwrestlinggirl@yahoo.com
Tink and Barry