We are real. My wife has done a couple of fights that were done with agreements on fight not going to level of risking real injuries. She's girly too, and I don't want to worry about things going beyond just what you describe. Wife is 5'5" 115, but 57. Still looks younger. Would be interested in seeing if we can artrange something is this sounds good to you. If not, then best wishes and luck in your search..