[snw]

Something I’ve seen before that was obvious to me and then at other times it may have been wishful thinking on my part. Another girl seemingly posing or drawing attention to herself next to another girl who is with a guy she wants. In other words I know my ex would come up when my gf/ and later on wife and was drawing attention to her bigger boobs. She knew how much boobs were my big turn on and she was considerably bigger than my gf. Both girls were fit and similar in size except for up top. She would make comments when I would talk to her when out without my gf. Such as I’m not sure what you see in her. I mean she has no boobs. After the comment it was like she was waiting for my reaction. Which almost always was my eyes going to hers. Smiling she’d cup them a bit and say she sure can’t match these. When my gf was around I knew what she was doing. The way she moved or cut her eyes she was drawing my attention to her chest beside my gf’s. I’m not sure if my gf knew what she was doing but she definitely saw me looking. Later she would jump in my shit about staring at my ex’s boobs. Though I never stared but I did steal a glance. No where near staring or even really noticeable unless you were looking for it. Which no doubt my ex was but I had no clue my gf was. While my gf would be upset with me I wondered if she happened to think about the fact my ex was doing it on purpose. Why wasn’t she upset with my ex or if she was actually but wouldn’t say anything to her. Surety if she paid attention to me concerning my ex she had to be as attentive to my ex’s intentions.
So for the girls have you ever done something like this to draw attention to yourself compared  to another girl’s bf/or S.O.?  Or have you seen another girl do so to you and your guy? If so how did you handle it when done to you or how did the other girl handle seeing you flaunt it for your guy.  Any words exchanged between the two of you either right then or waiting till you were able to confront her about it when it was you and her when the bf wasn’t around? I know girls compare them selves with other girls they see. I just wonder if it’s a way that is used commonly . Also why or why not was nothing said and were you upset with your guy even though he wouldn’t have stolen glances had she not provided the show?  Guys have you seen girls do this to your gf and how did that go? Long question I know but any insight would be appreciated.

[sinclairfan]

In my early 20s, I was in a circle of couples who still didn't have any kids, except for one of the women, a tall attractive blonde named Denise, who had a 7-year old daughter that she had had when she was still single and 17 or so (while still in high school we were pretty sure--altho it was obvious she was uncomfortable discussing the details).  Another woman in the circle, Amy, especially when the drinks would get flowing, would ride Denise merciliessly about the circumstances of her "Teen Mom" out-of-wedlock child.  Denise would shut up and take it for the longest time (she was obviously still embarrassed by whatever the circumstances had been), until one day she heard that Amy and Amy's husband had been trying to get preganant and were having no luck, so then Denise would start standing up for herself by riding Amy right back ("Get a plus yet when you peed on the stick, Amy?"), and the comments between Denise and Amy started getting uncomfortably nasty.  It all culminated in one day Denise being in the grocery store, and a gentle-but-creepy elderly man trying to stalk Denise, and Denise trying to politely shake him so she could get her shopping done.  She sees, coincidentally but conveniently, Amy's man in the store running some errand, and starts flamboyantly talking to him, including hugging him, trying to make the lonely elderly man think it was Denise's husband.  The elderly man goes, "Oh, is this your husband?", and Denise goes, "Yes, look!", and gives Amy's husband a wet sloppy kiss on the lips.  The trick worked, since the elderly man backed off quickly.  Which caused Denise to give Amy's husband a long, wet thank you kiss.  Well, anyways, the next night we're all drinking, and Denise blurts out, "Amy, your husband saved my life at Stop-N-Shop yesterday," and repeats the whole story, including the long passionate kisses in detail, and what a good kisser Amy's husband was.  The veins in Amy's forehead started throbbing, and it was obvious Denise was calling Amy out, and Amy was just weighing if she was going to realiate in front of all of us, or alone later 1on1 with Denise (or maybe even alone later with Denise's husband).  All of us women were rooting for the former, but Amy's husband took Amy home before the confrontation could escalate.  Then all of the women started speculating about who would win a brawl between Denise and Amy.

[JT Edson]

Oh man, I love this scenario. What a hot situation.

[snw]

That would’ve the time to try hard to make it happen somehow. Sounds like it needed to be settled anyway. How did the two match up . Sounds as though Denise must have been pretty attractive and confident to come on that strong with Amy’s husband. Pretty sure he would reciprocate her kiss without pulling back is confident. Even more so that she recounted the whole story herself in front of Amy which had to embarrass her pretty good with their friends listening too.. Hot account there.

[sinclairfan]

That would’ve the time to try hard to make it happen somehow. Sounds like it needed to be settled anyway. How did the two match up . Sounds as though Denise must have been pretty attractive and confident to come on that strong with Amy’s husband. Pretty sure he would reciprocate her kiss without pulling back is confident. Even more so that she recounted the whole story herself in front of Amy which had to embarrass her pretty good with their friends listening too.. Hot account there.

Of the 4 other women in the circle, we were 2-2 on who would have won if Denise and Amy had gotten physical.

Those of us on Team Denise thought that Amy was a bully who talked a big game but would crumble once she got hit.  Denise also had a 3-inch or so height advantage and better reach.

The two girls on Team Amy thought that the rest of us were overlooking how much Amy seemed to hate Denise, even before the stolen kisses in the grocery store.  To poke and prod a woman over the circumstances of a pregnancy from 7 years ago shows there was some toxic chemistry between them.

The fight itself would have been epic, though, we all agreed.