This scenario in my opinion is obscene and peak male fantasy. No way in hell would I ever allow myself to be used and manipulated like this. In this scenario I would roll my eyes, punch the bastard in his face and leave. I would also encourage my would be rival to do the same. Catfighting is not a fucking sport people, it is violent and nasty, the risks are extremely real. Its not something to do on a whim or for the entertainment of others, at least that is my opinion.
Now if in this scenario the man (and I use the term loosely) were to offer a cash prize for a catfight? I would still personally say hell no, however I can at least understand why other women would say yes.
Hugz and kisses
Kate
Last summer, something happened to me. I was in a bad relationship with my friend Liz at the time. And one asshole decided to take advantage of that. He said a bunch of nasty things to her, supposedly on my behalf. Said that I was spreading nasty rumors about her, that she was a whore and all that. I didn't talk to this idiot myself, but he, through our mutual friend Victoria, told me that Liz had told everyone about my stepfather and a lot of other things. I was furious. Liz was also furious. We were ready to kill each other. And the damn asshole rubbed his hands and beamed with happiness.
Hi Alexandra,
What a fucking bastard!
However did this damned asshole get want he wanted or were you and Liz able to make peace and see through his lies and manipulation?
Xoxo
Kate
Hi Kate.
I was going crazy for about a week. All this time I continued to wind myself up. Finally I decided to talk to Liz. But it turned out that she blocked me on all her social networks and her phone number also became unavailable to me. Then I stopped doubting, I decided that since she was hiding, it meant it was all true and she was a bitch and a traitor. I told Victoria that I was going to meet Liz and tell her face to face everything I thought about her. Victoria started begging me not to do it. She is very sweet and she didn't want Liz and I to fight. The situation was heating up. A certain Christina appeared, introduced herself as my friend and said a bunch of nasty things to Liz, allegedly on my behalf. This Christina also started to set Victoria against me. I told Victoria that I don’t know any Christina and have never met her. Here I had doubts. I don't know any Kristina, and she says that she is my friend. Clearly someone is trying to make us quarrel. Then I decided to take a desperate step. I waylaid Liz when she was returning from work. When she saw me, she panicked, she thought I was going to fight her. But I just wanted to talk. We went to a cafe and told each other everything. And as soon as we started talking, all the lies that Andrey had woven fell apart like a house of cards. This Andrey tried to court me earlier. But I turned him down. Then he started hitting on Victoria, but she also turned him down. He decided it was because of me and tried to get revenge on me by pitting me against Liz. He really wanted us to fight. And he almost succeeded.
Something similar happened to me a couple of years ago, but it wasn’t a man who pitted us against each other it was a woman and she succeeded I fought my friend now exfriend because of that bitch, it honestly sucks when something like that happens.
Probably every girl had such a "friend" who spread gossip and provoked conflicts.
This is true, well at least in my experience. I’ve seen it in the workplace, seen it while at university and I saw it amongst my circle of friends.
I suppose the question is now then: is this a legitimate tactic us girls should use? Would you for example look down on someone if say she used said tactic to trick two girls who you didn’t like into fighting?
And for the record, I’ve not done this myself but I’ve seen it done and honestly I was delighted with the results 
In my experience, girls often like it when men fight over them. I've seen this many times. As for girls, it's more about arguments than fights. Although, anything can happen.
I’ve never been a huge fan of fighting over people or being fought over. However if pushed my preference would be to have two girls fighting over me. But if they did, they need to understand that the result is meaningless. I refuse to be a trophy.
What do you mean? Two girls are fighting over you, but you refuse to be a trophy, and then why would they fight? Well, if they don't get anything?
Why would they fight? Well for starters I’m a cutie
But my bad jokes aside, as a species we don’t need much of an excuse to fight do we? Both men and women excel at making bad decisions / choices…especially on the subject on relationships. And just because two cute girls decided that the winner gets me, doesn’t mean I should be beholden to their decision?
Bottom line - I don’t like people who think they can make decisions about me, without my input. And to put it bluntly the chances of me asking two cute girls to fight over me and then saying I will date the winner is infinitesimal. It’s not in my nature.
Do you see my perspective now Alexandra?
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