This what I remember from what I have heard from being active in this community for many years.
I was a fan of Kelli back to the late 1990's. She started I the fight community when she was with JJ. I believe JJ had been involved with Mary/FgtnNurse who had 4 Yahoo groups for her long fighting career. JJ split from Mary and took up with Kelli. They were active in the fight community and may have started selling fight videos (I am not sure if JJ and Kelli were involved in Fighting Wildcats other than Kelli fighting in a few videos). They, mainly JJ, started publicizing plans for a new fight video company and a cable channel for catfights. Shortly after that they split up (I don't know anything about divorce as I never knew if they married). There were legal proceedings and Kelli had to take down her website because she was legally prohibited from continuing in the business. JJ remained active in the community for a while, still talking about the cable channel. Then he left and I am not sure what has happened. While I have never met JJ so I can't give a first hand opinion, much of what I read indicated he has very few fans in our community.
As far as Lady Ellen is concerned I recall reading a recent post somewhere on here that say she left the fight community because her new male friend was not comfortable with her remaining active.
That is what I remember and it, for Kelli and JJ, at least 5 years old. If I am mistaken, please feel free to correct me here.