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Does it always have to be physical?

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Offline Gia

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Does it always have to be physical?
« on: July 27, 2018, 02:37:56 AM »
I been wondering if any of you girls here are like me and think that it can be just as sexy, and maybe even more sexy sometimes, if the competition between two women includes everything except actually getting physical. I mean i realize this place is a catfight website and yes I do like scrapping with other bitches (Cyber of course) sometimes, but us girls are just so naturally competitive with each other in so many ways that I think it can be most sexy when we don't fight. Think about when two women are both looking their best and really turning on the sexiness in order to outshine a rival in public, or when two women who dislike each other are giving really ugly looks back and forth at each other and even getting in each others face and trading insults and threats, but maybe being held back from taking it to that next level where things get physical. I just think that all gives off a energy that is so sexy, especially if significant others are around or play a part in it. An example of this would be like when two womens rivalry and dislike for each other leads to the point that their significant others actually end up fighting or wrestling so their girl can feel superior. It happens in bars and clubs and in public all the time, more often with guys I'm sure, but can also happen with girls too. I can say i've experienced this too for myself a few times when seeing a guy i was dating fight another guy who's girlfriend was also around watching. Twice it was the guys who started the issue that led to them fighting but naturally me and the other girl became instant rivals and I wanted so bad for my guy to win since it would be like i had also won and defeated the those girls without ever getting physical. The sexual energy i got from the experience was something i still get exctied thinking back on to this day. IT was even more intense the time that me and another girls hatred and catiness towards each other actually led to a fight breaking out between our bf while we watched. Sorry if i rambled on this but anyone agree with me and find this to be super hot topic to chat about and even have fun with in cyber fights and settings?

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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #1 on: July 27, 2018, 03:07:38 AM »
Nothing hotter than a Twitter War....

....if that's what you're asking....

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Offline Gia

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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #2 on: July 27, 2018, 03:25:27 AM »
Nothing hotter than a Twitter War....

....if that's what you're asking....

Had never thought that but now that you mention it it does seem like a super sexy way to get bitchy towards another woman, especially because we can send and post all sorts of really sexy and intense photos.

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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #3 on: July 27, 2018, 03:38:05 AM »
You already know how much I identify with so many of the things that you find exciting and arousing. That's why we've had such great chats already and will hopefully have some great cyber role-play experiences very soon. Great post btw.

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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #4 on: July 27, 2018, 09:01:04 AM »
Humanity at its psychological and philosophical core has one long-standing battle of opposites, change, and forces mounted to battle that change. It's never more so apparent than with our relation to women (including the somewhat arbitrary ideal of the female form). Regardless, who's in charge, mostly it's set in stone how women are to be and how to behave.

These set of rules gave birth to the system what is known as ladylike behavior, and a mere half-century ago, stepping out of line was equal to... if you know what happens to Bioshock's protagonist, I need not elaborate. Mastering this system is like riding the Big Kahuna, so it's naturally intoxicating to feel superior in contrast with other women who refuse to. Opposition to self-liberation from that comes from the obvious source, the need for power as a tool of self-affirmation.

When it's being talked about how important self-worth is, it's mostly meant the presumed value within this system. Thus, for many, who derive pleasure from the physical form of female fights, it's perplexing why anyone would be contempt utterly destroying someone without laying a finger on them. Obviously, identifying with the madonna depiction spars the victoress the embarrassment of needing to explain her victory. Beyond that, it gets the target off of her back from letches.

The one mystery that remains for me is, that, in a lot of cases with prisoners of conscience (like Myanmar's president for decades) the point of contention is if captivity is an illusion or not. Turn it around, and from the perspective of an agile woman, it could very well be the illusion of captors, not lack of freedom itself.
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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #5 on: July 27, 2018, 09:24:36 PM »
Personally, I find the competitive spirit in a woman to be very sexy.  Of course, it's manifested in a wrestling match, then it's most exciting.  But, I find women competing at other things, like shooting pool, or dancing, or even playing chess or cards to be sexy as well.  For example, my wife is a fierce competitor, and always has been.  And in our era, girls weren't playing sports yet.  So competition came down to dancing or baking or whatever.  Regardless, to this day, she's got to be the best, no matter what the game is.  That's a characteristic that I've always loved.  BTW, I'm the same way, though I don't bake. 

So I'd say that you're right: it doesn't necessarily have to be physical. 

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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #6 on: July 27, 2018, 11:27:20 PM »
I'm a man but maybe I can also give my oppinion in short.

A catfight between two women nearly gives me no emotions, if I would see one in RL I would probably break it up. On the other hand if two women have a mental fight, as you described it is a turn on. Trying to conquer each other is a common thing, humans always establish some sort of ranks and women are doing it by outshining the others by looking more beautiful or sexy. If I see this happen I'm in great danger of loosing my senses.

Another thing are erotic battles like tit or sexfights that are some sort of physical confrontations but are mainly fought mentaly. I think women are going physical if both give their best but none can top the other, then there is just the physical way. For example if there is a hot girl with a DD rack on a party while all other girls are just B/C, then there would not be a fight because it's clear who is the alpha women, but if another hot girl with a DD rack enters you can be sure that there are at least some evil looks or catty comments between them and if no one backs down everything can happen. Or two equally hot girls, how should they solve the question of who is better if not making the other cum first?  ;D
« Last Edit: July 27, 2018, 11:30:11 PM by User1 »

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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #7 on: July 28, 2018, 09:53:29 AM »
I'm a man but maybe I can also give my oppinion in short.

A catfight between two women nearly gives me no emotions, if I would see one in RL I would probably break it up. On the other hand if two women have a mental fight, as you described it is a turn on. Trying to conquer each other is a common thing, humans always establish some sort of ranks and women are doing it by outshining the others by looking more beautiful or sexy. If I see this happen I'm in great danger of loosing my senses.

Another thing are erotic battles like tit or sexfights that are some sort of physical confrontations but are mainly fought mentaly. I think women are going physical if both give their best but none can top the other, then there is just the physical way. For example if there is a hot girl with a DD rack on a party while all other girls are just B/C, then there would not be a fight because it's clear who is the alpha women, but if another hot girl with a DD rack enters you can be sure that there are at least some evil looks or catty comments between them and if no one backs down everything can happen. Or two equally hot girls, how should they solve the question of who is better if not making the other cum first?  ;D

I too am a guy, but I disagree with the second half of your assessment. Fighting physically depends greatly on nurture and also on personality. I've had one girlfriend for whom brawling always was the first and only option.

Furthermore, sex appeal is called that for a reason. Having visually appealing breasts alone does not guarantee any status. Sure, it would be a great fantasy that we decide the pecking order, but alas, that's not the case. There are so many variables, but none of them is who's the most attractive to us and lesbian/bisexual women. The reason being that they decide the order by traditional, but arbitrary, internal rules. Not to mention, as women are humans too, they're not void of or immune to bigotry.

Last but not least, the evolutionary advantage of non-physical confrontation isn't just derived by a different form. In most cases, women like to challenge the other in things they know they're way better all in order to order to humiliate the other, resulting in not only them never confronting again, but also in the victoress's established position..
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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #8 on: July 30, 2018, 04:22:45 AM »
This intrigues me. I've always included the action in an erotic fight story, but I'm really tempted to do one that stops just of any physical contact. Build up the tension with dialog, with past conflicts, you name it. Give them a real reason to fight....and stop just before the first blow is laid.

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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #9 on: August 04, 2018, 01:49:35 PM »
Have had some pretty epic adrenaline rushes after having verbal confrontations with people that potentially could have escalated to getting physical but haven't.

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Offline catfightlover40

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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #10 on: August 04, 2018, 02:01:35 PM »
My ex-fiancee ran off with another guy but became more sexy to me as a fighter after the split. She was always quite bitchy, something I didn't really like about her when we were together, but it became oddly arousing once I hated her.
I think she grew to regret our split (for a time) and when I started goung out with another girl she got quite competitive with her. We had a couple of chats on MSN and she asked a lot about her and our relationship, which had been going for about six months by then, including who was better in bed. I said it was her (my ex) and she was so happy about that but she also screen captured the conversation and, much further down the line with a lot of water under the bridge she had an argument with my girl over her actions and she sent the screen cap of the MSN chat to her. I didn't speak to her again after that but to this day I do find it begrudingly sexy what she did.

It seems we have examined the same occurrences differently, 'cause in my case with my ex-fiancée, she pretty much used that screencap for leverage and had and still public spats with just about everyone. I didn't find that sexy because her attitude was fueled by disrespect and an innate need for domination/humiliation. That being said to each his own, you're entitled to take enjoyment from it, just as I am entitled to avoid women like her in the future.
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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #11 on: August 05, 2018, 04:07:16 AM »
My ex-fiancee ran off with another guy but became more sexy to me as a fighter after the split. She was always quite bitchy, something I didn't really like about her when we were together, but it became oddly arousing once I hated her.
I think she grew to regret our split (for a time) and when I started goung out with another girl she got quite competitive with her. We had a couple of chats on MSN and she asked a lot about her and our relationship, which had been going for about six months by then, including who was better in bed. I said it was her (my ex) and she was so happy about that but she also screen captured the conversation and, much further down the line with a lot of water under the bridge she had an argument with my girl over her actions and she sent the screen cap of the MSN chat to her. I didn't speak to her again after that but to this day I do find it begrudingly sexy what she did.

It seems we have examined the same occurrences differently, 'cause in my case with my ex-fiancée, she pretty much used that screencap for leverage and had and still public spats with just about everyone. I didn't find that sexy because her attitude was fueled by disrespect and an innate need for domination/humiliation. That being said to each his own, you're entitled to take enjoyment from it, just as I am entitled to avoid women like her in the future.

 
I'd say that you dodged a bullet. 

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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #12 on: August 05, 2018, 01:28:12 PM »
My ex-fiancee ran off with another guy but became more sexy to me as a fighter after the split. She was always quite bitchy, something I didn't really like about her when we were together, but it became oddly arousing once I hated her.
I think she grew to regret our split (for a time) and when I started goung out with another girl she got quite competitive with her. We had a couple of chats on MSN and she asked a lot about her and our relationship, which had been going for about six months by then, including who was better in bed. I said it was her (my ex) and she was so happy about that but she also screen captured the conversation and, much further down the line with a lot of water under the bridge she had an argument with my girl over her actions and she sent the screen cap of the MSN chat to her. I didn't speak to her again after that but to this day I do find it begrudingly sexy what she did.

It seems we have examined the same occurrences differently, 'cause in my case with my ex-fiancée, she pretty much used that screencap for leverage and had and still public spats with just about everyone. I didn't find that sexy because her attitude was fueled by disrespect and an innate need for domination/humiliation. That being said to each his own, you're entitled to take enjoyment from it, just as I am entitled to avoid women like her in the future.

 
I'd say that you dodged a bullet.

My only positive takeaway is, that it didn't change my opinion on women, I just became more selective. I thought it didn't matter much how indulging I can be for the prospect of witnessing a fight develop until it became crystal clear I lost sight of how controlling she had become. I'm not talking about my own life, rather her intrusions and attempts to that effect into the lives of others, especially on a professional level.

So, when this scorching weather isn't killing me, I'd always gladly cook up a story about the girlfriend (or ex) trash talking to the boss, but it's not something that should happen in real life. The guy who married her is way more agreeing, she just convinced him to enter into a polyamorous relationship, so, yes, I did indeed dodge a bullet.
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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #13 on: August 05, 2018, 03:13:04 PM »
As a guy that finds female combat extremely arousing,  I also find other types of female competition sexy too. I find it super hot when at a bar, party, concert when women are looking their best to see the looks they give each other. I was at a show a couple of weeks ago and noticed 2 attractive blondes. They were around 30, 5'3 ish , pale skin, with nice figures. They were having such a good time. Right before the show started 2 complete smokeshow brunettes show up and stand right in front of them. They were younger, taller, tan, had better bodies....
I could see the little blondes confidence and they no longer looked to be having fun. At one point the hottest brunette turned around and gave the blondes a little knowing smirk.

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Re: Does it always have to be physical?
« Reply #14 on: August 05, 2018, 10:20:26 PM »
The main point is to assert your superiority on your opponent. You can do it in so many different ways but the most primal, instinctive and by far more enjoyable type of dominance is beating her in a fight and sexually humiliating her. Physically beating somebody is the ultimate superiority. Wars, since dawn of mankind have been physical, it's hardwired into us. Plus, when you beat somebody physically, You have their life in your hand you can take her everything there. Other types of dominating your opponent are social constructs that have been made by us in recent times and could change. Beating somebody in a fair fight with your bare hands will always be the ultimate show of superiority sexually humiliating them is icing on the top especially if your opponent is a woman. Note that I'm not talking about a sex fight but an anything goes fight which ends with one woman punishing her opponent sexually after beating her in the fight.

On wars: it's a bit more complex than that. For one, depending on the etiquette of war and host culture, there are examples, like some in antique China where generals fought respective duels to spare whole armies from a mutual massacre. Sadly two world wars have tainted our perceptions on how fair wars can be (and here in Europe, it could get as nasty as constantly poisoning wells, but the very next day gang up to kill Jewish people together, a "wonderful tradition" carried over into the Americas where Brits and the French ganged up on natives, y'know, tolerance). But I digress, such duels of generals served multiple purposes: one forcefully drafted peasants got to keep their wages, their lives and two, it kept the same peasants from rising up if the weather was bad.

Europe's history after the ra...discovery of America is chock full of riots because for 3 centuries there was a small ice age with very bad weather. Just as an aside, I complain about this heat wave but in 1816 aka the year without summer, Virginia saw at least one day where the temperature was around 35 Celsius (app 110 Fahrenheit) and a mere hour later it fell to the minuses. In Celsius.

As soon as the weather turned more bearable and benevolent to crops, the number of kids could go up and once again humans became expendable. Despite that, there's a simple reason why entire kingdoms and empires capitulated without their populations having been decimated: what's even more strongly hardwired into us is being social animals, in need of companionship. Thus many looked up to leaders who made the wise decision of survival.

P.S.: Catherine the Great wasn't just an adulteress, she has participated in duels both as a fighter or a second, the former before she became the czar. As the ruler, she denounced the right of her rivals of being able to challenge her, making her the only one riding any stallion she wanted.
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