A fight at the whim of a man

[Mike_Lynn]

I would not consider fighting another woman at the whim of my husband, Mike. And he would never demand that I fight for his pleasure. But I would consider using him as my interlocutor, proposing an arranged fight to my opponent's male partner. Her man would have a difficult time in passing on the challenge.

Difficult because it would be hard for him to hide his arousal at the prospect of seeing his woman brawling with me in front of him and Mike. Difficult because she would have a hard time saying no, without looking like an inferior woman in his eyes. If she agreed to fight, but with the condition that he must fight my man, it would be difficult for him to say no. And I would love for that to happen.

When Mike and I create our fantasy fights with other couples, we use this approach to make sure that everyone gets what they want when there is a face-off to be had. It's a partnership based on lust and violence. It's a bond where neither partner feels unappreciated. And it's wildly exciting and primal to fight in front of your mate. It doesn't have to be a forced fight done at the whim of your other half.  It can be calculated and well-planned which makes the entire battle even more orgasmic...win or lose. So if you are going to fight for your man, consider that he be ready to do the same for you.
Lynn

[_Ruslana_]

Probably every girl had such a "friend" who spread gossip and provoked conflicts.

I think this is the most common reason for female fights. I've had fights over it.  Because of these reasons, we fight much more often than over men.

We're definitely are own worst enemies. And normally when this does occur, in my experience it's nearly always are so called friends who stab you in the back and set you against someone.

Exactly. But it's not just friends who do this, but also colleagues at work or college or university. I had fights against a "friend" and against my university classmate.

[Valkyrie Reborn]

Probably every girl had such a "friend" who spread gossip and provoked conflicts.

I think this is the most common reason for female fights. I've had fights over it.  Because of these reasons, we fight much more often than over men.

We're definitely are own worst enemies. And normally when this does occur, in my experience it's nearly always are so called friends who stab you in the back and set you against someone.

I couldn't have said it better your spot on, that's exactly what happened to me I've never expected to be stabbed in the back by her

[Olga]

Ok, this is slightly off topic...so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I've been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer... which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Your question is very difficult. I can't answer it definitively. Do I trust my friend... Yes. Would I agree if she spent the weekend in a country house with my man... No.

[Olga]

Thanks to everyone who shared their opinions. As I said, I asked this question to my friends in real life, but they weren't interested in fighting; many of them had never even fought. This group is made up of girls who enjoy fighting in one way or another. So, it's even more interesting to hear your opinions.

[_Ruslana_]

Ok, this is slightly off topic...so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I've been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer... which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

I agree with Olga on this issue. I trust my friends, but not always. For example, I also wouldn't trust even my best friend with anything related to my relationship with my boyfriend.
Let me add one more thing about trust and friends. If you get into a random fight and your ass gets kicked in that fight, then don't expect your friends to get into that fight and save your ass.

[_Ruslana_]

Ok, this is slightly off topic...so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I've been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer... which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Let me add one more thing about trust and friends. If you get into a random fight and your ass gets kicked in that fight, then don't expect your friends to get into that fight and save your ass.

This is an absolute given, as long as it's one on one and both participants want to fight...then everyone else should stay out of their personal business. But if 2-3 girls were squaring up to you, would you trust your friends to step forward and have your back?

When I ask myself that question my answer is perhaps, maybe...

After what happened to me once, I'm not sure if my friends would get into a fight, even if 2-3 girls attacked me. Three years ago, I got into a drunken fight against a bitch. I was in the company of 2 of my friends and this bitch was in the company of her friend. We fought 1 on 1 and it was fair. But it was very bad that at the moment when I had already lost and was lying beaten on the ground, this bitch continued to beat me (she literally punched me in the face and head), my friends did not even try to stop this fight. They were just watching that bitch smash my face. After the fight, they told me that they did not try to stop the fight because they were afraid of being beaten.

[Olga]

Ok, this is slightly off topic...so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I've been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer... which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Let me add one more thing about trust and friends. If you get into a random fight and your ass gets kicked in that fight, then don't expect your friends to get into that fight and save your ass.

This is an absolute given, as long as it's one on one and both participants want to fight...then everyone else should stay out of their personal business. But if 2-3 girls were squaring up to you, would you trust your friends to step forward and have your back?

When I ask myself that question my answer is perhaps, maybe...

Let me try to explain. I could get into trouble when I was a schoolgirl. Back then, my friends and I would get into a fight with another group or something like that. I'm unlikely to get into a street fight right now. But even if that happens, it's important which of my friends is by my side. She may be a wonderful woman, but she's never been in a fight, and the very prospect of being beaten terrifies her. And although I trust her, she won't be able to help me in a fight. At best, she might call the police. And if, for example, Daria or Lenka are with me, then there is no doubt that they will definitely help me.

[DS79]

I can understand the friends' feelings, as I've seen friends who intervened to stop it get beaten up themselves. You have to consider how many girls you're up against and how mean they are.

[_Ruslana_]

However those friends of yours...I'm not sure I would believe them myself.

As far as I know, both of my friends have never fought (except for their school days), but one of them is a girl who is just under 180 centimeters tall and weighs about 75 kilograms. They had a good chance of stopping the fight. At least they could have just screamed and called for help, but they didn't. Whatever you understand, at that moment it was no longer a fight, but a beating, and it could have ended more cruelly for me than a broken nose and a broken face.

[_Ruslana_]

Ok, this is slightly off topic...so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I've been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer... which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Let me add one more thing about trust and friends. If you get into a random fight and your ass gets kicked in that fight, then don't expect your friends to get into that fight and save your ass.

This is an absolute given, as long as it's one on one and both participants want to fight...then everyone else should stay out of their personal business. But if 2-3 girls were squaring up to you, would you trust your friends to step forward and have your back?

When I ask myself that question my answer is perhaps, maybe...

After what happened to me once, I'm not sure if my friends would get into a fight, even if 2-3 girls attacked me. Three years ago, I got into a drunken fight against a bitch. I was in the company of 2 of my friends and this bitch was in the company of her friend. We fought 1 on 1 and it was fair. But it was very bad that at the moment when I had already lost and was lying beaten on the ground, this bitch continued to beat me (she literally punched me in the face and head), my friends did not even try to stop this fight. They were just watching that bitch smash my face. After the fight, they told me that they did not try to stop the fight because they were afraid of being beaten.

It's very sad to hear about this.

At least now I know what to expect from these two friends in an extreme situation. But I'm still surprised by the cowardice of my friend, who is almost 180 centimeters tall and weighs 75 kilograms.

[_Ruslana_]

Ok, this is slightly off topic...so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I've been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer... which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Let me add one more thing about trust and friends. If you get into a random fight and your ass gets kicked in that fight, then don't expect your friends to get into that fight and save your ass.

This is an absolute given, as long as it's one on one and both participants want to fight...then everyone else should stay out of their personal business. But if 2-3 girls were squaring up to you, would you trust your friends to step forward and have your back?

When I ask myself that question my answer is perhaps, maybe...

After what happened to me once, I'm not sure if my friends would get into a fight, even if 2-3 girls attacked me. Three years ago, I got into a drunken fight against a bitch. I was in the company of 2 of my friends and this bitch was in the company of her friend. We fought 1 on 1 and it was fair. But it was very bad that at the moment when I had already lost and was lying beaten on the ground, this bitch continued to beat me (she literally punched me in the face and head), my friends did not even try to stop this fight. They were just watching that bitch smash my face. After the fight, they told me that they did not try to stop the fight because they were afraid of being beaten.

It's very sad to hear about this.

At least now I know what to expect from these two friends in an extreme situation. But I'm still surprised by the cowardice of my friend, who is almost 180 centimeters tall and weighs 75 kilograms.

But was it really cowardice or secretly she just didn't care?

It's an impossible question to answer I know, but based on everything you've said about your experience. I feel for you and I'm struggling to reconcile your friend's inaction and if the same happened to me. Me and my friends would have had words at a later date, I'm not saying we would have had a fight. But we definitely would have had an argument about the events of that night.

And yes...I am bitch.

I've known her for many years and she's a good friend in other situations. She's not a conflicted person and she's not used to getting into fights, unlike me. So I'm sure she was just scared.
I didn't seriously quarrel with them about this situation after the fight. At least they helped me get to my house after the fight. Considering how bad I was and how badly I was beaten after the fight, I needed their help in this

Don't worry about it, I'm a bitch too. 

[Olga]

Ok, this is slightly off topic...so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I've been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer... which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Let me add one more thing about trust and friends. If you get into a random fight and your ass gets kicked in that fight, then don't expect your friends to get into that fight and save your ass.

This is an absolute given, as long as it's one on one and both participants want to fight...then everyone else should stay out of their personal business. But if 2-3 girls were squaring up to you, would you trust your friends to step forward and have your back?

When I ask myself that question my answer is perhaps, maybe...

After what happened to me once, I'm not sure if my friends would get into a fight, even if 2-3 girls attacked me. Three years ago, I got into a drunken fight against a bitch. I was in the company of 2 of my friends and this bitch was in the company of her friend. We fought 1 on 1 and it was fair. But it was very bad that at the moment when I had already lost and was lying beaten on the ground, this bitch continued to beat me (she literally punched me in the face and head), my friends did not even try to stop this fight. They were just watching that bitch smash my face. After the fight, they told me that they did not try to stop the fight because they were afraid of being beaten.

It's very sad to hear about this.

At least now I know what to expect from these two friends in an extreme situation. But I'm still surprised by the cowardice of my friend, who is almost 180 centimeters tall and weighs 75 kilograms.

But was it really cowardice or secretly she just didn't care?

It's an impossible question to answer I know, but based on everything you've said about your experience. I feel for you and I'm struggling to reconcile your friend's inaction and if the same happened to me. Me and my friends would have had words at a later date, I'm not saying we would have had a fight. But we definitely would have had an argument about the events of that night.

And yes...I am bitch.

I've known her for many years and she's a good friend in other situations. She's not a conflicted person and she's not used to getting into fights, unlike me. So I'm sure she was just scared.
I didn't seriously quarrel with them about this situation after the fight. At least they helped me get to my house after the fight. Considering how bad I was and how badly I was beaten after the fight, I needed their help in this

Don't worry about it, I'm a bitch too. 

Great, you're bitches and I'm a cutie. 

Now, seriously. Girls, what about you? Would you come to your friends' aid? Would you get into a fight?

It depends upon circumstances.

But if she is outnumbered then of course I'm stepping in. As a rule however I don't like interfering in other girls catfights and I would go nuclear if someone interfered in mine.

But if something was going down like what happened to Ruslana, then of course I will act.

So it turns out that Sasha is a cutie, and Kate and Ruslana are bitches. Now I'm going to go and tell everyone I know about this. I guess that's how gossip starts.

Kate, I think you're setting too many conditions. It seems to me that you are confusing an organized fight and a fight that arose spontaneously. If the girls agreed to fight one-on-one, then that's their business, of course. But if a fight broke out, I don't know, like in a bar, when some drunk bitch attacked your friend, are you just going to stand there and watch? You're saying that you don't like it when people interfere in your fights, meaning that if you're lying on the ground and some bitch is kicking you, there's no need to interfere? I don't know if even a stranger was being beaten in front of me, I would have tried to stop the fight.

Although, to be honest, in the heat of a fight it's hard for me to stop; I can easily land a few blows on an already fallen opponent, and I'll be grateful to my friends if they pull me away from her before I cause serious harm to her health.

[_Ruslana_]

Now, seriously. Girls, what about you? Would you come to your friends' aid? Would you get into a fight?

It depends on the situation. For example, if my friend is attacked by 2 bitches, then I will get into a fight. If my friend loses the fight and the bitch beats her up on the ground with unnecessary cruelty, trying to cause her serious injuries, then I will also try to stop this bitch.
But I won't get into a fight if it's a 1-on-1 fight and regardless of who wins, as long as the winner doesn't try to beat the loser to a pulp, as was the case in my unsuccessful fight.

I agree with what Olga wrote above. In a random fight, I fight violently and can also punch my opponent lying on the ground several times. But I will only do this as long as my opponent poses a threat to me, so as not to lose my victory. If I see that my opponent is no longer dangerous and is not trying to fight, but is lying helplessly on the ground, then I will not continue to beat her. I don't want to be responsible for this bitch's severe injuries and I don't want to get in serious trouble with the pol

[_Ruslana_]

Now, seriously. Girls, what about you? Would you come to your friends' aid? Would you get into a fight?

It depends on the situation. For example, if my friend is attacked by 2 bitches, then I will get into a fight. If my friend loses the fight and the bitch beats her up on the ground with unnecessary cruelty, trying to cause her serious injuries, then I will also try to stop this bitch.
But I won't get into a fight if it's a 1-on-1 fight and regardless of who wins, as long as the winner doesn't try to beat the loser to a pulp, as was the case in my unsuccessful fight.

I agree with what Olga wrote above. In a random fight, I fight violently and can also punch my opponent lying on the ground several times. But I will only do this as long as my opponent poses a threat to me, so as not to lose my victory. If I see that my opponent is no longer dangerous and is not trying to fight, but is lying helplessly on the ground, then I will not continue to beat her. I don't want to be responsible for this bitch's severe injuries and I don't want to get in serious trouble with the pol

You're talking about circumstances, but it all boiled down to a fight where your friend is fighting someone one-on-one, and you're wondering if it's worth intervening if she's losing. That's not exactly what I meant. Let me give you a concrete example. You see your friend being beaten up by some strange bitches. There are two of them. You don't know what happened or why. But you understand that if you intervene, you could end up getting beaten up yourself. And the question is, will you rush to help, or will you get scared, like that big girl Ruslana was talking about.

In this situation, I will get into a fight regardless of the risk. I have a lot of experience in spontaneous fights, and I won all of them except one. It gives me a good chance to save my friend in a fight.
But if my friend is attacked by 3 or more bitches at the same time, then first I will try to call for help and after that I will get into a fight. And hopefully, help will come before these bitches have time to kick our asses.

[_Ruslana_]