[Alexandra X]

Now, seriously. Girls, what about you? Would you come to your friends' aid? Would you get into a fight?

It depends on the situation. For example, if my friend is attacked by 2 bitches, then I will get into a fight. If my friend loses the fight and the bitch beats her up on the ground with unnecessary cruelty, trying to cause her serious injuries, then I will also try to stop this bitch.
But I won't get into a fight if it's a 1-on-1 fight and regardless of who wins, as long as the winner doesn't try to beat the loser to a pulp, as was the case in my unsuccessful fight.

I agree with what Olga wrote above. In a random fight, I fight violently and can also punch my opponent lying on the ground several times. But I will only do this as long as my opponent poses a threat to me, so as not to lose my victory. If I see that my opponent is no longer dangerous and is not trying to fight, but is lying helplessly on the ground, then I will not continue to beat her. I don't want to be responsible for this bitch's severe injuries and I don't want to get in serious trouble with the pol

You're talking about circumstances, but it all boiled down to a fight where your friend is fighting someone one-on-one, and you're wondering if it's worth intervening if she's losing. That's not exactly what I meant. Let me give you a concrete example. You see your friend being beaten up by some strange bitches. There are two of them. You don't know what happened or why. But you understand that if you intervene, you could end up getting beaten up yourself. And the question is, will you rush to help, or will you get scared, like that big girl Ruslana was talking about.

[KateA - The Devil In Heels]

Ok, this is slightly off topic…so I apologise for that. However based on the conversation so far, I have to ask:

How much do us girls honestly trust our female friends?

I’ve been asking myself that all morning and I still have not come up with an answer… which in itself is very telling.

Xoxo
Kate

Let me add one more thing about trust and friends. If you get into a random fight and your ass gets kicked in that fight, then don't expect your friends to get into that fight and save your ass.

This is an absolute given, as long as it’s one on one and both participants want to fight…then everyone else should stay out of their personal business. But if 2-3 girls were squaring up to you, would you trust your friends to step forward and have your back?

When I ask myself that question my answer is perhaps, maybe…

After what happened to me once, I'm not sure if my friends would get into a fight, even if 2-3 girls attacked me. Three years ago, I got into a drunken fight against a bitch. I was in the company of 2 of my friends and this bitch was in the company of her friend. We fought 1 on 1 and it was fair. But it was very bad that at the moment when I had already lost and was lying beaten on the ground, this bitch continued to beat me (she literally punched me in the face and head), my friends did not even try to stop this fight. They were just watching that bitch smash my face. After the fight, they told me that they did not try to stop the fight because they were afraid of being beaten.

It's very sad to hear about this.

At least now I know what to expect from these two friends in an extreme situation. But I'm still surprised by the cowardice of my friend, who is almost 180 centimeters tall and weighs 75 kilograms.

But was it really cowardice or secretly she just didn’t care?

It’s an impossible question to answer I know, but based on everything you’ve said about your experience. I feel for you and I’m struggling to reconcile your friend’s inaction and if the same happened to me. Me and my friends would have had words at a later date, I’m not saying we would have had a fight. But we definitely would have had an argument about the events of that night.

And yes…I am bitch.

I've known her for many years and she's a good friend in other situations. She's not a conflicted person and she's not used to getting into fights, unlike me. So I'm sure she was just scared.
I didn't seriously quarrel with them about this situation after the fight. At least they helped me get to my house after the fight. Considering how bad I was and how badly I was beaten after the fight, I needed their help in this

Don't worry about it, I'm a bitch too. 

Great, you're bitches and I'm a cutie. 

Now, seriously. Girls, what about you? Would you come to your friends' aid? Would you get into a fight?

It depends upon circumstances.

But if she is outnumbered then of course I’m stepping in. As a rule however I don’t like interfering in other girls catfights and I would go nuclear if someone interfered in mine.

But if something was going down like what happened to Ruslana, then of course I will act.

So it turns out that Sasha is a cutie, and Kate and Ruslana are bitches. Now I'm going to go and tell everyone I know about this. I guess that's how gossip starts.

Kate, I think you're setting too many conditions. It seems to me that you are confusing an organized fight and a fight that arose spontaneously. If the girls agreed to fight one-on-one, then that's their business, of course. But if a fight broke out, I don't know, like in a bar, when some drunk bitch attacked your friend, are you just going to stand there and watch? You're saying that you don't like it when people interfere in your fights, meaning that if you're lying on the ground and some bitch is kicking you, there's no need to interfere? I don’t know if even a stranger was being beaten in front of me, I would have tried to stop the fight.

Although, to be honest, in the heat of a fight it’s hard for me to stop; I can easily land a few blows on an already fallen opponent, and I’ll be grateful to my friends if they pull me away from her before I cause serious harm to her health.

As I said at the start of my previous answer, it depends upon the circumstances. Which was honestly me being lazy with my reply…I had just got up and had not had my morning coffee. I don’t function so good without it

If my friend is a willing participant, then I’m staying out of it. But I will watch her back. If she was not say a willing participant then, I will act.

If I was on the floor being kicked and stomped into the dance floor, if I was utterly defenceless? Then of course I would be grateful for any proverbial white knight. But when we reach this stage, it’s not a fight - it’s a beat down and my mind separates beat downs from fights. If I’m in what I judge to be a fight, fuck yes I would go nuclear if a friend interfered.

If a friend interferes during a beat down on me, that would be hugely out of character for them. The sad reality is that if they saw this happening to me…I can name three who I’m certain would be making fucking TikTok’s. As for the others, they would act…I’m sure of it, well kind of sure. Definitely most likely…assuming of course they didn’t have more important problems. Something urgent like a broken nail 

My friends are great for a spa day, even better for a day of shopping and dinner together. But do I confide in them? Hell no, the minute my back is turned those juicy secrets will be sent to a plethora of what’s app groups. Do I trust them to have my back on a night out, I don’t know…I really don’t know.

[_Ruslana_]

Now, seriously. Girls, what about you? Would you come to your friends' aid? Would you get into a fight?

It depends on the situation. For example, if my friend is attacked by 2 bitches, then I will get into a fight. If my friend loses the fight and the bitch beats her up on the ground with unnecessary cruelty, trying to cause her serious injuries, then I will also try to stop this bitch.
But I won't get into a fight if it's a 1-on-1 fight and regardless of who wins, as long as the winner doesn't try to beat the loser to a pulp, as was the case in my unsuccessful fight.

I agree with what Olga wrote above. In a random fight, I fight violently and can also punch my opponent lying on the ground several times. But I will only do this as long as my opponent poses a threat to me, so as not to lose my victory. If I see that my opponent is no longer dangerous and is not trying to fight, but is lying helplessly on the ground, then I will not continue to beat her. I don't want to be responsible for this bitch's severe injuries and I don't want to get in serious trouble with the pol

You're talking about circumstances, but it all boiled down to a fight where your friend is fighting someone one-on-one, and you're wondering if it's worth intervening if she's losing. That's not exactly what I meant. Let me give you a concrete example. You see your friend being beaten up by some strange bitches. There are two of them. You don't know what happened or why. But you understand that if you intervene, you could end up getting beaten up yourself. And the question is, will you rush to help, or will you get scared, like that big girl Ruslana was talking about.

In this situation, I will get into a fight regardless of the risk. I have a lot of experience in spontaneous fights, and I won all of them except one. It gives me a good chance to save my friend in a fight.
But if my friend is attacked by 3 or more bitches at the same time, then first I will try to call for help and after that I will get into a fight. And hopefully, help will come before these bitches have time to kick our asses.

[KateA - The Devil In Heels]

Now, seriously. Girls, what about you? Would you come to your friends' aid? Would you get into a fight?

It depends on the situation. For example, if my friend is attacked by 2 bitches, then I will get into a fight. If my friend loses the fight and the bitch beats her up on the ground with unnecessary cruelty, trying to cause her serious injuries, then I will also try to stop this bitch.
But I won't get into a fight if it's a 1-on-1 fight and regardless of who wins, as long as the winner doesn't try to beat the loser to a pulp, as was the case in my unsuccessful fight.

I agree with what Olga wrote above. In a random fight, I fight violently and can also punch my opponent lying on the ground several times. But I will only do this as long as my opponent poses a threat to me, so as not to lose my victory. If I see that my opponent is no longer dangerous and is not trying to fight, but is lying helplessly on the ground, then I will not continue to beat her. I don't want to be responsible for this bitch's severe injuries and I don't want to get in serious trouble with the pol

You're talking about circumstances, but it all boiled down to a fight where your friend is fighting someone one-on-one, and you're wondering if it's worth intervening if she's losing. That's not exactly what I meant. Let me give you a concrete example. You see your friend being beaten up by some strange bitches. There are two of them. You don't know what happened or why. But you understand that if you intervene, you could end up getting beaten up yourself. And the question is, will you rush to help, or will you get scared, like that big girl Ruslana was talking about.

In this situation, I will get into a fight regardless of the risk. I have a lot of experience in spontaneous fights, and I won all of them except one. It gives me a good chance to save my friend in a fight.
But if my friend is attacked by 3 or more bitches at the same time, then first I will try to call for help and after that I will get into a fight. And hopefully, help will come before these bitches have time to kick our asses.

I’m kind of the opposite, as I’ve said before in other posts. When I make the decision to catfight it’s usually due to a personal issues between us and the fight only takes place after normally exhausting discussions regarding the where, when and what we’re both wearing.

Normally I like to wear jeans, a simple top and my leather ankle boots. However there have been occasions where we dressed up and wanted to present ourselves to each other looking our absolute best, so it does vary.

[Alexandra X]

Thus, we came to the conclusion that everything depends on the circumstances. Then let's get back to the original topic. If a man wants you to fight for his entertainment, you say "no," but if certain circumstances arise, you say "maybe," and maybe even "yes."
For example, this is your boss and he doesn’t know who to give a promotion to, you or your colleague, and he suggests resolving this issue with a fight. Or it's a potential employer, and he offers you to fight with another girl, since he can only hire one of you.
The conditions are different, the prize for the winner is different, but the idea is the same. You'll fight another girl, and the man will watch and enjoy it.

What do you say, bitches? 

[KateA - The Devil In Heels]

Thus, we came to the conclusion that everything depends on the circumstances. Then let's get back to the original topic. If a man wants you to fight for his entertainment, you say "no," but if certain circumstances arise, you say "maybe," and maybe even "yes."
For example, this is your boss and he doesn’t know who to give a promotion to, you or your colleague, and he suggests resolving this issue with a fight. Or it's a potential employer, and he offers you to fight with another girl, since he can only hire one of you.
The conditions are different, the prize for the winner is different, but the idea is the same. You'll fight another girl, and the man will watch and enjoy it.

What do you say, bitches? 

I would slap the pig and then take him to the cleaners through the courts. In the UK something like this just wouldn’t happen and I would be in total shock if any woman in the UK were to experience such a proposal.

But could this happen in other countries? My guess could be yes but I really have no idea.

[Alexandra X]

Thus, we came to the conclusion that everything depends on the circumstances. Then let's get back to the original topic. If a man wants you to fight for his entertainment, you say "no," but if certain circumstances arise, you say "maybe," and maybe even "yes."
For example, this is your boss and he doesn’t know who to give a promotion to, you or your colleague, and he suggests resolving this issue with a fight. Or it's a potential employer, and he offers you to fight with another girl, since he can only hire one of you.
The conditions are different, the prize for the winner is different, but the idea is the same. You'll fight another girl, and the man will watch and enjoy it.

What do you say, bitches? 

I would slap the pig and then take him to the cleaners through the courts. In the UK something like this just wouldn’t happen and I would be in total shock if any woman in the UK were to experience such a proposal.

But could this happen in other countries? My guess could be yes but I really have no idea.

Personally, I haven't encountered this either. It's much more common to be offered sex in exchange for a promotion.
But I'm not talking about any specific case. I'm just saying that the conditions can vary. If you don't like these specific ones, then yeah, let it be a ticket to a concert of your favorite artist. Or some thing that you really want to possess. A man has something that you really want, and he is willing to give it to you if you win over another girl who also really wants to get this thing.
Is this better?

[Alix_Fights]

Thus, we came to the conclusion that everything depends on the circumstances. Then let's get back to the original topic. If a man wants you to fight for his entertainment, you say "no," but if certain circumstances arise, you say "maybe," and maybe even "yes."
For example, this is your boss and he doesn’t know who to give a promotion to, you or your colleague, and he suggests resolving this issue with a fight. Or it's a potential employer, and he offers you to fight with another girl, since he can only hire one of you.
The conditions are different, the prize for the winner is different, but the idea is the same. You'll fight another girl, and the man will watch and enjoy it.

What do you say, bitches? 

First of all, don't call me a bitch.   

Second of all, any boss suggesting a fight as a means to secure a promotion would be fired from any legitimate company.  If it were two exotic dancers or sex workers, yeah, I suppose that might happen.

My boyfriend has told me that he would love to see me in a fight, but wouldn't want for me to get hurt.  It's a great topic for foreplay and works really well for us  , but not realistic as the other girl and I would get hurt, so it's a fantasy of his, separating the spectacle from the consequences.

So for me the answer is no, I would not fight for his (or any man's) entertainment, and can't imagine any circumstance that would cause me to realistically change my mind IRL.

[Alexandra X]

Thus, we came to the conclusion that everything depends on the circumstances. Then let's get back to the original topic. If a man wants you to fight for his entertainment, you say "no," but if certain circumstances arise, you say "maybe," and maybe even "yes."
For example, this is your boss and he doesn’t know who to give a promotion to, you or your colleague, and he suggests resolving this issue with a fight. Or it's a potential employer, and he offers you to fight with another girl, since he can only hire one of you.
The conditions are different, the prize for the winner is different, but the idea is the same. You'll fight another girl, and the man will watch and enjoy it.

What do you say, bitches? 

First of all, don't call me a bitch.   

Second of all, any boss suggesting a fight as a means to secure a promotion would be fired from any legitimate company.  If it were two exotic dancers or sex workers, yeah, I suppose that might happen.

My boyfriend has told me that he would love to see me in a fight, but wouldn't want for me to get hurt.  It's a great topic for foreplay and works really well for us  , but not realistic as the other girl and I would get hurt, so it's a fantasy of his, separating the spectacle from the consequences.

So for me the answer is no, I would not fight for his (or any man's) entertainment, and can't imagine any circumstance that would cause me to realistically change my mind IRL.

What's wrong with you? He'll fire you and sue you. I was asking about something completely different. Would you agree to such terms? What happens to the boss depends on what he's the boss of. It's unlikely that anyone would suggest such a way to get a promotion to clerks or factory workers. I could name industries where this is entirely possible. But that's not the point.
Let me repeat, I am talking about those situations when you are offered to fight voluntarily, and not forced to do so by threats or blackmail.

[Alix_Fights]

Thus, we came to the conclusion that everything depends on the circumstances. Then let's get back to the original topic. If a man wants you to fight for his entertainment, you say "no," but if certain circumstances arise, you say "maybe," and maybe even "yes."
For example, this is your boss and he doesn’t know who to give a promotion to, you or your colleague, and he suggests resolving this issue with a fight. Or it's a potential employer, and he offers you to fight with another girl, since he can only hire one of you.
The conditions are different, the prize for the winner is different, but the idea is the same. You'll fight another girl, and the man will watch and enjoy it.

What do you say, bitches? 

First of all, don't call me a bitch.   

Second of all, any boss suggesting a fight as a means to secure a promotion would be fired from any legitimate company.  If it were two exotic dancers or sex workers, yeah, I suppose that might happen.

My boyfriend has told me that he would love to see me in a fight, but wouldn't want for me to get hurt.  It's a great topic for foreplay and works really well for us  , but not realistic as the other girl and I would get hurt, so it's a fantasy of his, separating the spectacle from the consequences.

So for me the answer is no, I would not fight for his (or any man's) entertainment, and can't imagine any circumstance that would cause me to realistically change my mind IRL.

What's wrong with you? He'll fire you and sue you. I was asking about something completely different. Would you agree to such terms? What happens to the boss depends on what he's the boss of. It's unlikely that anyone would suggest such a way to get a promotion to clerks or factory workers. I could name industries where this is entirely possible. But that's not the point.
Let me repeat, I am talking about those situations when you are offered to fight voluntarily, and not forced to do so by threats or blackmail.

What's wrong with me, what's wrong with YOU!  If you do such a thing, he now has control over you, and what's to prevent him to do similar things in the future, always proposing that for some reward that you fight another girl 'voluntarily'.  The situations which you describe (fighting for a promotion, fighting to get hired) would not get me fired or sued, but it might get him fired or demoted because he is being manipulative and serving his own needs and not the company's needs.  Maybe it's different in Russia.

[KateA - The Devil In Heels]

How about we take this discussion in a slightly different direction and give our thoughts about when we would fight for our man?

For me there really is only one, maybe two scenarios (But scenario number two is a huge maybe).

Scenario One:

Another woman keeps propositioning your man. Your man has behaved impeccably and politely declined her advances more than once and he has been honest and kept you in the loop as to what she has been doing. The first time may of been an honest mistake, being charitable a second time might be down to our man being clumsy with his words and not spelling out he is taken. A third time? Well at this point me and her absolutely will be having a little private girl talk! And if the other woman in this scenario was known to me and I knew; she knew he was taken? Then of course there are no warnings. She has made a declaration of war and I happily accept!

Scenario Two:

Some bitch, probably at his work place is using her position to make his life a living hell. He is doing what he can while working under the confines of office politics. He approaches me and asks for my support and assistance. This is tricky, you can’t just pick a fight with your man’s boss. Maybe at a workplace event you can get an opportunity to speak with her woman to woman? Maybe a mutual agreement to discuss things further in more suitable setting can be agreed? Or perhaps the real answer here is that beyond love and support, a catfight with his boss would be useless. As honestly is his situation realistically going to improve if I kick his bitch bosses ass?

Oh one final caveat: In either scenario my man would be left at home, as personally inviting him to watch is indulgent and distasteful. Well at least for me

So have I missed anything girls?

Xoxo
Kate

[Olga]

I'll probably tell you a story too. I have a friend who wrestled in her youth. There was another girl in her section with whom she was constantly competing. So, they had to put together a team for a regional competition. Two girls were vying for a spot on the team in their weight class. The coach, instead of making a decision himself or drawing lots, suggested that they wrestle. The girls disliked each other. Their fight quickly spiraled out of control. It's hard to say who broke the rules first, but the wrestling match turned into a brawl. The girls were separated, but they started fighting again in the locker room. A very violent fight broke out between them. Both were injured and were unable to compete. The parents of one of the girls filed a complaint against the coach. The proceedings were lengthy. So, the idea of ??finding out who was better didn't work out, although it was a good one. But as always, reality ruined all the plans.

[Olga]

Thus, we came to the conclusion that everything depends on the circumstances. Then let's get back to the original topic. If a man wants you to fight for his entertainment, you say "no," but if certain circumstances arise, you say "maybe," and maybe even "yes."
For example, this is your boss and he doesn’t know who to give a promotion to, you or your colleague, and he suggests resolving this issue with a fight. Or it's a potential employer, and he offers you to fight with another girl, since he can only hire one of you.
The conditions are different, the prize for the winner is different, but the idea is the same. You'll fight another girl, and the man will watch and enjoy it.

What do you say, bitches? 

First of all, don't call me a bitch.   

Second of all, any boss suggesting a fight as a means to secure a promotion would be fired from any legitimate company.  If it were two exotic dancers or sex workers, yeah, I suppose that might happen.

My boyfriend has told me that he would love to see me in a fight, but wouldn't want for me to get hurt.  It's a great topic for foreplay and works really well for us  , but not realistic as the other girl and I would get hurt, so it's a fantasy of his, separating the spectacle from the consequences.

So for me the answer is no, I would not fight for his (or any man's) entertainment, and can't imagine any circumstance that would cause me to realistically change my mind IRL.

What's wrong with you? He'll fire you and sue you. I was asking about something completely different. Would you agree to such terms? What happens to the boss depends on what he's the boss of. It's unlikely that anyone would suggest such a way to get a promotion to clerks or factory workers. I could name industries where this is entirely possible. But that's not the point.
Let me repeat, I am talking about those situations when you are offered to fight voluntarily, and not forced to do so by threats or blackmail.

What's wrong with me, what's wrong with YOU!  If you do such a thing, he now has control over you, and what's to prevent him to do similar things in the future, always proposing that for some reward that you fight another girl 'voluntarily'.  The situations which you describe (fighting for a promotion, fighting to get hired) would not get me fired or sued, but it might get him fired or demoted because he is being manipulative and serving his own needs and not the company's needs.  Maybe it's different in Russia.

Oh, yes, it's different in Russia 

[KateA - The Devil In Heels]

I'll probably tell you a story too. I have a friend who wrestled in her youth. There was another girl in her section with whom she was constantly competing. So, they had to put together a team for a regional competition. Two girls were vying for a spot on the team in their weight class. The coach, instead of making a decision himself or drawing lots, suggested that they wrestle. The girls disliked each other. Their fight quickly spiraled out of control. It's hard to say who broke the rules first, but the wrestling match turned into a brawl. The girls were separated, but they started fighting again in the locker room. A very violent fight broke out between them. Both were injured and were unable to compete. The parents of one of the girls filed a complaint against the coach. The proceedings were lengthy. So, the idea of ??finding out who was better didn't work out, although it was a good one. But as always, reality ruined all the plans.

Great story but I feel sorry for the coach. If the girls wrestling skills were about equal and if they had both enjoyed an equally successful season of competition. Then having them wrestle to decide the spot seems fair to me. The fact they couldn’t control their emotions is on them, the fact they beat each other up so badly is on them.

I would only criticise the coach if he knew they hated each other? And it’s possible the coach might have been clueless…us girls are adept at hiding such things. Especially if the coach was male.

Xoxo
Kate

[Alix_Fights]

How about we take this discussion in a slightly different direction and give our thoughts about when we would fight for our man?

For me there really is only one, maybe two scenarios (But scenario number two is a huge maybe).

Scenario One:

Another woman keeps propositioning your man. Your man has behaved impeccably and politely declined her advances more than once and he has been honest and kept you in the loop as to what she has been doing. The first time may of been an honest mistake, being charitable a second time might be down to our man being clumsy with his words and not spelling out he is taken. A third time? Well at this point me and her absolutely will be having a little private girl talk! And if the other woman in this scenario was known to me and I knew; she knew he was taken? Then of course there are no warnings. She has made a declaration of war and I happily accept!

Scenario Two:

Some bitch, probably at his work place is using her position to make his life a living hell. He is doing what he can while working under the confines of office politics. He approaches me and asks for my support and assistance. This is tricky, you can’t just pick a fight with your man’s boss. Maybe at a workplace event you can get an opportunity to speak with her woman to woman? Maybe a mutual agreement to discuss things further in more suitable setting can be agreed? Or perhaps the real answer here is that beyond love and support, a catfight with his boss would be useless. As honestly is his situation realistic going to improve if I kick his bitch bosses ass?

Oh one final caveat: In either scenario my man would be left at home, as personally inviting him to watch is indulgent and distasteful. Well at least for me

So have I missed anything girls?

Xoxo
Kate

Scenario One would definitely set the stage for a confrontation with little Miss Flirt with me.